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More drug problems, just one week after rehab
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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 500137" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Hmmm well yes there is that issue. She can start the eviction process so he knows they are serious. I suspect before that even gets completed he will get into trouble elsewhere on his own. And we were told that we should let them suffer the natural consequences, e.g., getting kicked out of IOP and school and legal consequences when they are caught in a restaurant smoking pot.</p><p></p><p>I guess what I'm saying is within one week he has gotten into trouble in school and outside of school. If you need to follow certain eviction procedures that's what you do. It sounds like he is going to find himself in a lot of trouble soon. But to follow him around and try to prove he is using is just doing the same thing you were doing before he went to rehab. He has to be in charge of his own recovery. I know this is hard, when we were told that I didn't understand either. But we were told if nothing changes nothing changes. If we continue doing what we have always done we will get the same results. We will be driving ourselve crazy running around behind her and she will continue lying and trying to cover up her use. Does that make sense or am I just confusing you?</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 500137, member: 59"] Hmmm well yes there is that issue. She can start the eviction process so he knows they are serious. I suspect before that even gets completed he will get into trouble elsewhere on his own. And we were told that we should let them suffer the natural consequences, e.g., getting kicked out of IOP and school and legal consequences when they are caught in a restaurant smoking pot. I guess what I'm saying is within one week he has gotten into trouble in school and outside of school. If you need to follow certain eviction procedures that's what you do. It sounds like he is going to find himself in a lot of trouble soon. But to follow him around and try to prove he is using is just doing the same thing you were doing before he went to rehab. He has to be in charge of his own recovery. I know this is hard, when we were told that I didn't understand either. But we were told if nothing changes nothing changes. If we continue doing what we have always done we will get the same results. We will be driving ourselve crazy running around behind her and she will continue lying and trying to cover up her use. Does that make sense or am I just confusing you? Nancy [/QUOTE]
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