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Thanks for the support ladies. To answer the questions:

1. He was seen last Monday for a medication tweak. I really do NOT like his psychiatrist, but I do not deal with him. Gpa &/or Gma does. They live with him (difficult child can't live with us because I will NOT be beaten, nor will I see my daughter be beaten. :warrior:)

2. I still wonder about theft. I did call ALL of the stores that sell this stuff to see if they were missing a nintendo ds or games. None of them were.

3. Gparents were very upset. He is not allowed to leave the house with-out Gps, Gma, husband or I. He is not allowed to go to the bookstore or the game store (role playing games) at all. He has to work off the $ he conned out of Jbird :grrr: and for the things he used to make the weapons.

4. He has always been fascinated with weapons. To a very scary degree. He may have plans to use the weapons, or is providing them to friends to use.

Ny dad will use hard labor (cutting brush, other yard work, scrubbing things, etc...) as part of his consequences.

We think he is gambling on Magic the Gathering games. I am firmly against allowing difficult child to play the various card games, but I don't make the rules. They just lead to scary, risky, and unsafe behavior. My parents always thought I was over-reacting, but maybe now they will see the light. He has a very hard time telling reality from the fantasy in the cards. When he is plying the card games he starts to feel like he has to have weapons, because he might be attacked by one of the characters. :thumbsdown:

difficult child said he was betting on things like " I bet a dollar you won't put a staple into your arm". But we haven't got the whole story yet. You can't get over $200 that way. I am wondering if he is using drugs. I don't see any signs, but I don't see him daily.

difficult child is a very tough nut to crack. He is an excellent liar. It took 3 months in an inpatient facility to get him to admit to trying to kill his sister and to hurting her and I viciously.

Thanks for the prayers, support and good karma.

Hugs,

Susie

<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 64075" data-attributes="member: 1233">Thanks for the support ladies.&nbsp; To answer the questions:1.&nbsp; He was seen last Monday for a medication tweak. I really do NOT like his psychiatrist, but I do not deal with him.&nbsp; Gpa &amp;/or Gma does.&nbsp; They live with him (difficult child can't live with us because I will NOT be beaten, nor will I see my daughter be beaten.&nbsp;&nbsp; :warrior:)2.&nbsp; I still wonder about theft.&nbsp; I did call ALL of the stores that sell this stuff to see if they were missing a nintendo ds or games.&nbsp; None of them were.3.&nbsp; Gparents were very upset.&nbsp; He is not allowed to leave the house with-out Gps, Gma, husband or I.&nbsp; He is not allowed to go to the bookstore or the game store (role playing games) at all.&nbsp; He has to work off the $ he conned out of Jbird&nbsp; :grrr:&nbsp; and for the things he used to make the weapons.4.&nbsp; He has always been fascinated with weapons.&nbsp; To a very scary degree.&nbsp; He may have plans to use the weapons, or is providing them to friends to use. Ny dad will use hard labor (cutting brush, other yard work, scrubbing things, etc...) as part of his consequences.We think he is gambling on Magic the Gathering games. I am firmly against allowing difficult child to play the various card games, but I don't make the rules.&nbsp; They just lead to scary, risky, and unsafe behavior.&nbsp; My parents always thought I was over-reacting, but maybe now they will see the light.&nbsp; He has a very hard time telling reality from the fantasy in the cards.&nbsp; When he is plying the card games he starts to feel like he has to have weapons, because he might be attacked by one of the characters.&nbsp; :thumbsdown:difficult child said he was betting on things like &quot; I bet a dollar you won't put a staple into your arm&quot;.&nbsp; But we haven't got the whole story yet. You can't get over $200 that way.&nbsp; I am wondering if he is using drugs.&nbsp; I don't see any signs, but I don't see him daily.&nbsp; difficult child is a very tough nut to crack.&nbsp; He is an excellent liar.&nbsp; It took 3 months in an inpatient facility to get him to admit to trying to kill his sister and to hurting her and I viciously.Thanks for the prayers, support and good karma.Hugs,Susie</blockquote>

[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 64075, member: 1233"] Thanks for the support ladies. To answer the questions: 1. He was seen last Monday for a medication tweak. I really do NOT like his psychiatrist, but I do not deal with him. Gpa &/or Gma does. They live with him (difficult child can't live with us because I will NOT be beaten, nor will I see my daughter be beaten. [img]:warrior:[/img]) 2. I still wonder about theft. I did call ALL of the stores that sell this stuff to see if they were missing a nintendo ds or games. None of them were. 3. Gparents were very upset. He is not allowed to leave the house with-out Gps, Gma, husband or I. He is not allowed to go to the bookstore or the game store (role playing games) at all. He has to work off the $ he conned out of Jbird [img]:grrr:[/img] and for the things he used to make the weapons. 4. He has always been fascinated with weapons. To a very scary degree. He may have plans to use the weapons, or is providing them to friends to use. Ny dad will use hard labor (cutting brush, other yard work, scrubbing things, etc...) as part of his consequences. We think he is gambling on Magic the Gathering games. I am firmly against allowing difficult child to play the various card games, but I don't make the rules. They just lead to scary, risky, and unsafe behavior. My parents always thought I was over-reacting, but maybe now they will see the light. He has a very hard time telling reality from the fantasy in the cards. When he is plying the card games he starts to feel like he has to have weapons, because he might be attacked by one of the characters. [img]:thumbsdown:[/img] difficult child said he was betting on things like " I bet a dollar you won't put a staple into your arm". But we haven't got the whole story yet. You can't get over $200 that way. I am wondering if he is using drugs. I don't see any signs, but I don't see him daily. difficult child is a very tough nut to crack. He is an excellent liar. It took 3 months in an inpatient facility to get him to admit to trying to kill his sister and to hurting her and I viciously. Thanks for the prayers, support and good karma. Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]

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