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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 623435" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Broken,</p><p></p><p>I am sorry you are going through this..... this may not be forever. Things change.</p><p></p><p>The first thing that came to my mind is what is her husband like? Is he a good guy or is he very controlling? One of the tactics of abusive partners is to do everything they can to isolate their partners from people who love them and give them support... that way it is much harder for the person to leave.</p><p></p><p>So I would do what you can to keep the door open so when your daughter is ready she can contact you and know you will be there.... and at the same time do everything you can to take care of you.</p><p></p><p>And I think you did absolutely the right thing to call the police to do a well being check on her.</p><p></p><p>I think what I might do is to write to her and tell her that you love her, she might not want to have contact with you but you want to know that at least she is alive and doing well... and that if she wont let you know herself that you will call the police to check on her.</p><p></p><p>Believe me people do well being checks all the time... it is not an unusual police call!</p><p></p><p>TL</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 623435, member: 15801"] Broken, I am sorry you are going through this..... this may not be forever. Things change. The first thing that came to my mind is what is her husband like? Is he a good guy or is he very controlling? One of the tactics of abusive partners is to do everything they can to isolate their partners from people who love them and give them support... that way it is much harder for the person to leave. So I would do what you can to keep the door open so when your daughter is ready she can contact you and know you will be there.... and at the same time do everything you can to take care of you. And I think you did absolutely the right thing to call the police to do a well being check on her. I think what I might do is to write to her and tell her that you love her, she might not want to have contact with you but you want to know that at least she is alive and doing well... and that if she wont let you know herself that you will call the police to check on her. Believe me people do well being checks all the time... it is not an unusual police call! TL Sent using ConductDisorders mobile app [/QUOTE]
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