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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 169925" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>The one thing I have learned about probation and juvie rules is that "the system" has a life of it's own and does not abide any</p><p>perceived interference by families. Truthfully, your post sounds like you are trying to figure out a way to "escape" from</p><p>your local system and hope for the best in another jurisdiction</p><p> </p><p>I don't believe the chances are good that you can get the permission to relocate <strong>unless</strong> you have a specific reason to move. If you had been offered a new job in xyz city and state, for example, I would expect the Court to approve a</p><p>written request to move. If you had an extended family in</p><p>a specific location that was prepared to put in writing that they eagerly wanted to provide support for you and difficult child etc.</p><p>with reference to the exact type of help available...maybe.</p><p> </p><p>Although I understand what you are trying to accomplish, I</p><p>think it could cause problems for you and difficult child if you simply</p><p>said "I want to move to another place and start over". That</p><p>type of sentiment would likely make your local "system" think</p><p>that you are trying to escape accountability.</p><p> </p><p>One more thing I'd like your to consider is that you don't <strong>know</strong> if you would be jumping from the the frying pan into the fire. Where we live appears to be a laid back peaceful small</p><p>community full of kind caring people. In truth, our county Judges send a high percentage of nonviolent offenders away</p><p>for years. The Juvie residential facilities are mostly designed to keep the troublemakers away from the "good" population.</p><p> </p><p>Do alot of research and soul searching before trying to make a change. Everyone here will support you with your choice but</p><p>before making the choice...try to analyze it thoroughly. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 169925, member: 35"] The one thing I have learned about probation and juvie rules is that "the system" has a life of it's own and does not abide any perceived interference by families. Truthfully, your post sounds like you are trying to figure out a way to "escape" from your local system and hope for the best in another jurisdiction I don't believe the chances are good that you can get the permission to relocate [B]unless[/B] you have a specific reason to move. If you had been offered a new job in xyz city and state, for example, I would expect the Court to approve a written request to move. If you had an extended family in a specific location that was prepared to put in writing that they eagerly wanted to provide support for you and difficult child etc. with reference to the exact type of help available...maybe. Although I understand what you are trying to accomplish, I think it could cause problems for you and difficult child if you simply said "I want to move to another place and start over". That type of sentiment would likely make your local "system" think that you are trying to escape accountability. One more thing I'd like your to consider is that you don't [B]know[/B] if you would be jumping from the the frying pan into the fire. Where we live appears to be a laid back peaceful small community full of kind caring people. In truth, our county Judges send a high percentage of nonviolent offenders away for years. The Juvie residential facilities are mostly designed to keep the troublemakers away from the "good" population. Do alot of research and soul searching before trying to make a change. Everyone here will support you with your choice but before making the choice...try to analyze it thoroughly. DDD [/QUOTE]
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