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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 169959" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thanks for the insight, DDD. I wasn't really planning on going to them saying "I want to move and get away from this" though. I want to find out if there is a legal way to move and what those steps are, then look into where and how and job, etc. </p><p></p><p>There is more to it then just difficult child being in trouble- I don't think I have much choice other than take drastic steps. I am trying to consider several options to see which is most feasible. </p><p></p><p>I can't work full-time and do everything they are ordering be done. It is supposed to be him on probation, but it really is me that is just as legally obligated to them. If I can't work full-time, I can't provide for him, get him medical (mental health) treatment, and pay his restitutiion. I simply can not. I have been making it work this past year, but I'm out now and do not have the resources to do it another year. So, I can either wait until we are living out of the car and they take him away for me not providing for him, or I make changes now.</p><p></p><p>Obviously, they don't care if they are ordering him to do things that aren't really possible and they don't care if they are expecting me to do things that are not possible. If I am still trying to find a solution and they don't want to consider it, then they can come up with another solution, and I'm sure they will but at least I will knnow and my son will know that I gave it my best shot. This one will not work for any length of time because it is impossible.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 169959, member: 3699"] Thanks for the insight, DDD. I wasn't really planning on going to them saying "I want to move and get away from this" though. I want to find out if there is a legal way to move and what those steps are, then look into where and how and job, etc. There is more to it then just difficult child being in trouble- I don't think I have much choice other than take drastic steps. I am trying to consider several options to see which is most feasible. I can't work full-time and do everything they are ordering be done. It is supposed to be him on probation, but it really is me that is just as legally obligated to them. If I can't work full-time, I can't provide for him, get him medical (mental health) treatment, and pay his restitutiion. I simply can not. I have been making it work this past year, but I'm out now and do not have the resources to do it another year. So, I can either wait until we are living out of the car and they take him away for me not providing for him, or I make changes now. Obviously, they don't care if they are ordering him to do things that aren't really possible and they don't care if they are expecting me to do things that are not possible. If I am still trying to find a solution and they don't want to consider it, then they can come up with another solution, and I'm sure they will but at least I will knnow and my son will know that I gave it my best shot. This one will not work for any length of time because it is impossible. [/QUOTE]
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