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<blockquote data-quote="tawnya" data-source="post: 152460" data-attributes="member: 55"><p>Thank you everyone. Slsh, you hit the nail on the head. mother in law wants "her gone" but she won't follow through with anything. It is so screwed up...mother in law now wants to put her in a group home, but my thinking is that it might have been OK 30 years ago, but now? </p><p></p><p>I am just so sick and tired of having "her" run the family. I truly believe she can't help most of it, but on the other hand? husband says she is just like his dad, who died long ago. He says mom did the same thing with his abuse. And that is what it is....abuse.</p><p></p><p>And at the same time I totally understand that sister in law is sooo sick and tired of just hearing bit**ing all day long that who wouldn't go crazy? Like I said before, it is just so screwed up that I don't know if it can ever be "fixed". I do know that this is all going to fall into our laps one day soon. mother in law looks ten years older than she did last year. She is killing her. Did I tell you that mother in law is cripped, too? One good push would do her in. I'm at my wits end on this one. No one will follow through and it makes me want to scream... </p><p></p><p>I have no authority and I know mother in law is going to get hurt.</p><p></p><p>Also, sister in law sits on her bed today (and other days) screaming at the top of her lungs that she is going to kill herself. Group home....group home... nursing home...i hope i die tonight.... Over and over and over.</p><p></p><p>Someone please help me. What can I do when no one will do what they should do? I am just so scared for my almost 80 yr old mother in law.</p><p></p><p>It stinks.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tawnya, post: 152460, member: 55"] Thank you everyone. Slsh, you hit the nail on the head. mother in law wants "her gone" but she won't follow through with anything. It is so screwed up...mother in law now wants to put her in a group home, but my thinking is that it might have been OK 30 years ago, but now? I am just so sick and tired of having "her" run the family. I truly believe she can't help most of it, but on the other hand? husband says she is just like his dad, who died long ago. He says mom did the same thing with his abuse. And that is what it is....abuse. And at the same time I totally understand that sister in law is sooo sick and tired of just hearing bit**ing all day long that who wouldn't go crazy? Like I said before, it is just so screwed up that I don't know if it can ever be "fixed". I do know that this is all going to fall into our laps one day soon. mother in law looks ten years older than she did last year. She is killing her. Did I tell you that mother in law is cripped, too? One good push would do her in. I'm at my wits end on this one. No one will follow through and it makes me want to scream... I have no authority and I know mother in law is going to get hurt. Also, sister in law sits on her bed today (and other days) screaming at the top of her lungs that she is going to kill herself. Group home....group home... nursing home...i hope i die tonight.... Over and over and over. Someone please help me. What can I do when no one will do what they should do? I am just so scared for my almost 80 yr old mother in law. It stinks. [/QUOTE]
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