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my adult son is terrorizing our family
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 756527" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Change it! Get off social media too. We both quit FB. Trust me, daily abuse will kill your kind soul. Block him for your mental health. And feel no guilt. Your kids are way into adulthood and we can not live forever. Coronavirus should show us this loud and clear. They will have to learn to function without us. It may not be in the way we hoped they would but they will learn to get essentials, even if it's not the way we thought they would do it. Our help doesn't change them into practicing social norms. We can't change that by 30 and up. They get hardwired.</p><p></p><p>However they wish to sustain, they need to learn to do it without us. If they choose to panhandle.or sell drugs or dumpster dive, we can't stop them. We get them for 18 years. That's it. After that we don't even really know what they do. These kids lie to us. Or shut us down and disappear. The ones who bring us here are not the nicest or most honest and we don't have to take their abuse.</p><p></p><p>I wish you peace and God's love. It's time to be able to rest and not live in drama.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 756527, member: 23706"] Change it! Get off social media too. We both quit FB. Trust me, daily abuse will kill your kind soul. Block him for your mental health. And feel no guilt. Your kids are way into adulthood and we can not live forever. Coronavirus should show us this loud and clear. They will have to learn to function without us. It may not be in the way we hoped they would but they will learn to get essentials, even if it's not the way we thought they would do it. Our help doesn't change them into practicing social norms. We can't change that by 30 and up. They get hardwired. However they wish to sustain, they need to learn to do it without us. If they choose to panhandle.or sell drugs or dumpster dive, we can't stop them. We get them for 18 years. That's it. After that we don't even really know what they do. These kids lie to us. Or shut us down and disappear. The ones who bring us here are not the nicest or most honest and we don't have to take their abuse. I wish you peace and God's love. It's time to be able to rest and not live in drama. [/QUOTE]
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