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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 316937" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Sue, </p><p></p><p>There is nothing I could say to make you feel any better about Figs' health. I truly am sorry for what you are facing. Just know that you don't have to be the tough girl or the adult. Our fuzzy children become our rock when everything around us stops understanding us. Seems with four legs they could run faster away from us than anyone, yet they choose to stay and comfort us. Who wouldn't mourn loosing that type of a friend for any length of time? I believe, we'll be together again someday. It's just the inbetween and making new friends that becomes harder as we grow older. They (our furry children) understand us better than we understand ourselves and actually don't want us to be alone...Figs loves you and he knows you love him. In the end that's what matters. It's what matters most. </p><p></p><p> Everyone deals with loss or the thought of loss in their own way. I've found out this year that the time I spend being angry at someone for how they grieve over the loss of someone I love is less time I spent remembering how much they made me happy. Keep that in mind when you judge someone on how they handle impending loss. It will help you focus on what was important to you about Figs and lessen the loss. I think memories are our loved ones way of filling the holes they leave in our lives when they go. </p><p></p><p>Keep that in mind as much as you can. Just know you're not alone. </p><p></p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 316937, member: 4964"] Sue, There is nothing I could say to make you feel any better about Figs' health. I truly am sorry for what you are facing. Just know that you don't have to be the tough girl or the adult. Our fuzzy children become our rock when everything around us stops understanding us. Seems with four legs they could run faster away from us than anyone, yet they choose to stay and comfort us. Who wouldn't mourn loosing that type of a friend for any length of time? I believe, we'll be together again someday. It's just the inbetween and making new friends that becomes harder as we grow older. They (our furry children) understand us better than we understand ourselves and actually don't want us to be alone...Figs loves you and he knows you love him. In the end that's what matters. It's what matters most. Everyone deals with loss or the thought of loss in their own way. I've found out this year that the time I spend being angry at someone for how they grieve over the loss of someone I love is less time I spent remembering how much they made me happy. Keep that in mind when you judge someone on how they handle impending loss. It will help you focus on what was important to you about Figs and lessen the loss. I think memories are our loved ones way of filling the holes they leave in our lives when they go. Keep that in mind as much as you can. Just know you're not alone. Hugs & Love Star :happy: [/QUOTE]
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