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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 110018" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I've never adopted but agree with the two responses above. This sounds like a bad cycle has developed and you both need a little help to get it back on a good, more constructive, path. There's nothing to be ashamed of for that- most of us here need that on occassion. I'm looking for it for our home currently, even though my difficult child has his own individual counselor. It's sad for you to be living each day feeling the way you do and it sounds like more than just an occassional mood. The "spoon" approach will not lead the situation in a better direction, I'm afraid. in my humble opinion, this will ultimately make difficult child's behavior and negative attitude toward you and others and herself worse. I regret ever slamming a door and spanking my difficult child just because I was frustarted, angry, and knew no better solution. It caused more turmoil in the long run than any five minute turn-around it ever seemed to give. </p><p></p><p>I wish I knew what to say to make you feel a little better and relieve some stress and frustration. {{{HUGS}}}} If you've decided that it's pointless to continue with everything the way it has been have you given any thought yet to what changes you want made (that you have control of) - what you might be willing and can do differently? Are just just seeking a way to find difficult child another place to live or are you looking for a treatment plan? Sorry, I'm just confused over the direction you want to go in.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 110018, member: 3699"] I've never adopted but agree with the two responses above. This sounds like a bad cycle has developed and you both need a little help to get it back on a good, more constructive, path. There's nothing to be ashamed of for that- most of us here need that on occassion. I'm looking for it for our home currently, even though my difficult child has his own individual counselor. It's sad for you to be living each day feeling the way you do and it sounds like more than just an occassional mood. The "spoon" approach will not lead the situation in a better direction, I'm afraid. in my humble opinion, this will ultimately make difficult child's behavior and negative attitude toward you and others and herself worse. I regret ever slamming a door and spanking my difficult child just because I was frustarted, angry, and knew no better solution. It caused more turmoil in the long run than any five minute turn-around it ever seemed to give. I wish I knew what to say to make you feel a little better and relieve some stress and frustration. {{{HUGS}}}} If you've decided that it's pointless to continue with everything the way it has been have you given any thought yet to what changes you want made (that you have control of) - what you might be willing and can do differently? Are just just seeking a way to find difficult child another place to live or are you looking for a treatment plan? Sorry, I'm just confused over the direction you want to go in. [/QUOTE]
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