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My daughter lost her best friend. What to do?
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<blockquote data-quote="Daka" data-source="post: 269149" data-attributes="member: 7331"><p>MWM, I realize it has been quite awhile since you posted this but I am just now dealing with a similar situation with my daughter. She's 10 and will be 11 in 4 months and her best friend since kindergarten has not only taken up with some other girls but they tease her for her clothes (althought my daughter says they wear the same clothes). He former boyfriend has also given them her personal info on her problems (ie. a form of clubfoot so that her feet hurt all the time and she doesn't run very well, and she has some preemie emotional tendencies) so that the new girls pick on that too. I have given her all the love and hugs as well as a bit of tough love. By that I mean that she needs to let the old boyfriend go and stop trying to make her like her (my daughter asked to paint her nails black to please the mean group) and to find new friends. Anyway, I was wondering how things worked out for your daughter and what you did through the process, because as you said, it's so hard to watch, I have never been angry at any of my daughters before (my other is 9 ADHD and SVT) until now. I can't understand how she can treat my daughter like this, she turned on her so very fast for no reason, no fight, etc. and I know they are kids and preteens but to use personal info is overly cruel to me. So again, how is the situation now, I truly hope your daughter has healed and found more friends.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Thanks,</p><p>KC (also in the midwest but not a small town)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Daka, post: 269149, member: 7331"] MWM, I realize it has been quite awhile since you posted this but I am just now dealing with a similar situation with my daughter. She's 10 and will be 11 in 4 months and her best friend since kindergarten has not only taken up with some other girls but they tease her for her clothes (althought my daughter says they wear the same clothes). He former boyfriend has also given them her personal info on her problems (ie. a form of clubfoot so that her feet hurt all the time and she doesn't run very well, and she has some preemie emotional tendencies) so that the new girls pick on that too. I have given her all the love and hugs as well as a bit of tough love. By that I mean that she needs to let the old boyfriend go and stop trying to make her like her (my daughter asked to paint her nails black to please the mean group) and to find new friends. Anyway, I was wondering how things worked out for your daughter and what you did through the process, because as you said, it's so hard to watch, I have never been angry at any of my daughters before (my other is 9 ADHD and SVT) until now. I can't understand how she can treat my daughter like this, she turned on her so very fast for no reason, no fight, etc. and I know they are kids and preteens but to use personal info is overly cruel to me. So again, how is the situation now, I truly hope your daughter has healed and found more friends. Thanks, KC (also in the midwest but not a small town) [/QUOTE]
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