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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 188544" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I have been doing this dance with my daughter for six years. I listen to her, give my .02 when asked, but don't get involved as she won't leave him anyway and will get an "us against the world" attitude if I do that. She knows I'm here for her, but I have never been anything but nice to her SO (at least to his face). I think your daughter's hub is a jerk for having a girl on his MySpace. In MY world, if hub did that, I"d start packing. I don't think married people should have friends of the opposite sex unless wife is just as close. I wouldn't do it to my hub and he wouldn't do it to me. However, daughter's SO did that to her, and I did tell her she had a right to be angry. However, I didn't tell her what to do about it. My daughter has grown so much and learned a lot...I trust her to make good decisions in the end. If she doesn't, I'm sure she will learn from her mistakes. We are very good friends and talk about everything--EVERYTHING (this is how I found out the Too-Much-Information about all the drugs she once used...ugh). But I never directly interfer. She knows she can come home if necessary. She knows I'm her biggest cheerleader. But I don't tell her what to do. I let her think for herself. She's 24--I can't live forever. She needs to learn to make her own decisions.</p><p>Good luck.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 188544, member: 1550"] I have been doing this dance with my daughter for six years. I listen to her, give my .02 when asked, but don't get involved as she won't leave him anyway and will get an "us against the world" attitude if I do that. She knows I'm here for her, but I have never been anything but nice to her SO (at least to his face). I think your daughter's hub is a jerk for having a girl on his MySpace. In MY world, if hub did that, I"d start packing. I don't think married people should have friends of the opposite sex unless wife is just as close. I wouldn't do it to my hub and he wouldn't do it to me. However, daughter's SO did that to her, and I did tell her she had a right to be angry. However, I didn't tell her what to do about it. My daughter has grown so much and learned a lot...I trust her to make good decisions in the end. If she doesn't, I'm sure she will learn from her mistakes. We are very good friends and talk about everything--EVERYTHING (this is how I found out the Too-Much-Information about all the drugs she once used...ugh). But I never directly interfer. She knows she can come home if necessary. She knows I'm her biggest cheerleader. But I don't tell her what to do. I let her think for herself. She's 24--I can't live forever. She needs to learn to make her own decisions. Good luck. [/QUOTE]
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