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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 90321" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p>You are right, this is a sucky move. Do all that you can possibly do to maintain your own serenity. There is nothing else you can do to make this faux relationship with Tink's father better for her in any way. She is going to have to learn that even when he's closer in proximity, thier relationship is limited. It totally blows (I know, I had to do this with my exh) but he has proven that he is barely capable of giving the bare minimum and he's weak. </p><p></p><p>His girlfriend is evil and selfish and paranoid and all those other horrid things. But is she wholly to blame for exh's lack of involvement in Tink's life?</p><p></p><p>Just for ha-ha's, if you took the girlfriend out of the equation, would exh be a better father to Tink? </p><p></p><p>It just breaks your heart to see them so confused and hurt by their own parent. God, I just remember holding my easy child until she cried herself to sleep one night when she was about 5 and waited until 10PM for her dad to pick her up. I finally convinced her she should lay down for a while and she just cried and cried. Ugh. </p><p></p><p>Sorry thier move has taken away some of your joy about the new digs. Try not to allow them to ruin it. Hugs to Tink.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 90321, member: 2211"] You are right, this is a sucky move. Do all that you can possibly do to maintain your own serenity. There is nothing else you can do to make this faux relationship with Tink's father better for her in any way. She is going to have to learn that even when he's closer in proximity, thier relationship is limited. It totally blows (I know, I had to do this with my exh) but he has proven that he is barely capable of giving the bare minimum and he's weak. His girlfriend is evil and selfish and paranoid and all those other horrid things. But is she wholly to blame for exh's lack of involvement in Tink's life? Just for ha-ha's, if you took the girlfriend out of the equation, would exh be a better father to Tink? It just breaks your heart to see them so confused and hurt by their own parent. God, I just remember holding my easy child until she cried herself to sleep one night when she was about 5 and waited until 10PM for her dad to pick her up. I finally convinced her she should lay down for a while and she just cried and cried. Ugh. Sorry thier move has taken away some of your joy about the new digs. Try not to allow them to ruin it. Hugs to Tink. [/QUOTE]
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