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MY ex and my mom are trying to drive me insane!! (Rant)
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 566823" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>In SC - we have an ESCORT system where in couples who just can't seem to get it together -----MEET 1/2 way at a place of convenience and EXCHANGE children with a SHERIFF or OFFICER present. This prevents a LOT of this HE said, SHE said and threats. We get just as many women as men calling to set the meetings up. It's amicable, the children don't get further damage unless.......the parents are stone cold idiots and call each other on the phone AFTER and argue, and that can be avoided by turning off the phone.....and it's nice for the parents that would sooner just not say boo to each other. Most of them have it set up that way through the court system. </p><p></p><p>Secondly.....When you ask your Mother to help? You're already inviting trouble into your home. You're how old? And you've known her HOW long? And she's been a butinski, over bearing, do it HER way personality for XX years? Yet this surprises you that she has negative comments to make about your home, your lifestyle, your cleaning habits, your children, their toothbrushes, their hygiene? Really? Really?........REALLY? And THAT ruined your WHOLE day????? (looks up to the corner of the room as if....) NAH...........no. I think I would have said OMG OMG OMG ......she came, she helped she said NOTHING.....and then been like - WTH? What's she up to.....she freaked me out and kept her trap shut....I have no idea what shes up to....she's so unpredictable ----I'm off balance....it wrecked my whole day.....ahhhhhhhhhh. (yeah see that makes more sense) but to be SURPRISED by her lack of respect for your home? Nooooooooooope (pops p with mouth) not even () much there kid......nope. (popped the p again) She wouldn't get to own MY day. Know what I mean?? I need to just write you some zingers or something......like - OMG Mom someone must have broken into my house and emptied the drawers WHAT DO YOU MEAN there is nothing in my drawers? OMG......get out of that house NOW!!!!!!! HOW did you know the drawers were empty?????? WERE YOU SNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPING? Who does that Mom really? How old are you? You have issues Mother. (see.......?????) </p><p></p><p>And with regard to greasy hair? and having a 15 year old......I would say (and I love this one) "WELL MOM.......You raised me and I'm raising her the best way I know by the example YOU set for me......what do you want?????" </p><p></p><p>Honestly woman......lol </p><p></p><p>Now with that landlady......it's true - maybe she could have given you the $50 ......but she didn't. End of story. Doesn't matter HOW many times you've paid on time. You were late. There is a fee. Brain or not....BiPolar (BP) or not. Calendar or not. Tis what it tis. It's over......and you're out $50.....let it go. (and no it's not easy for me to say-.......I have no money either) </p><p></p><p>HOWEVER......Christmas is NOT ruined. Christmas is what you make it. It's the spirit of the season. It's from your heart.....and not your purse. It's 1 day out of 365......and the date was picked by a Roman Catholic Pope....so PICK another.....and tell the kids.......Christmas will be on.....12-25......BUT this year you are going to celebrate THREE KINGS day -----look up the meaning.......and CELEBRATE IT. Make some new traditions.....and DON"T LET THE DAY BE RUINED. </p><p></p><p>Listen here EEyore. I want you to get up in the morning.....and write positive words of affirmation on sticky notes and start loving yourself. Stop blaming everyone and take CONTROL of your life. </p><p></p><p>I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR........I AM BEAUTIFUL.......I AM INTELLIGENT.......I AM WORTHY........I AM IN CHARGE........there.....that takes care of this week. NOW cut, and print........and put them all over your house. </p><p></p><p>AND BELIEVE.......and as far as goodwill? SCREW washing the clothes......they BALE 90% of donated clothes anyway.......and don't care if they get things washed.....they make more money on baled clothing. TRUSH me.....worked there.......I baled 22,000 lbs of clothes a week.......we didn't sell anywhere NEAR that. BAG the baskets and DUMP them in a donation box.......they'll get used. And you'll save soap , time and electricity. </p><p></p><p>Plus you'll have three baskets......</p><p></p><p>Hugs * Love</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 566823, member: 4964"] In SC - we have an ESCORT system where in couples who just can't seem to get it together -----MEET 1/2 way at a place of convenience and EXCHANGE children with a SHERIFF or OFFICER present. This prevents a LOT of this HE said, SHE said and threats. We get just as many women as men calling to set the meetings up. It's amicable, the children don't get further damage unless.......the parents are stone cold idiots and call each other on the phone AFTER and argue, and that can be avoided by turning off the phone.....and it's nice for the parents that would sooner just not say boo to each other. Most of them have it set up that way through the court system. Secondly.....When you ask your Mother to help? You're already inviting trouble into your home. You're how old? And you've known her HOW long? And she's been a butinski, over bearing, do it HER way personality for XX years? Yet this surprises you that she has negative comments to make about your home, your lifestyle, your cleaning habits, your children, their toothbrushes, their hygiene? Really? Really?........REALLY? And THAT ruined your WHOLE day????? (looks up to the corner of the room as if....) NAH...........no. I think I would have said OMG OMG OMG ......she came, she helped she said NOTHING.....and then been like - WTH? What's she up to.....she freaked me out and kept her trap shut....I have no idea what shes up to....she's so unpredictable ----I'm off balance....it wrecked my whole day.....ahhhhhhhhhh. (yeah see that makes more sense) but to be SURPRISED by her lack of respect for your home? Nooooooooooope (pops p with mouth) not even () much there kid......nope. (popped the p again) She wouldn't get to own MY day. Know what I mean?? I need to just write you some zingers or something......like - OMG Mom someone must have broken into my house and emptied the drawers WHAT DO YOU MEAN there is nothing in my drawers? OMG......get out of that house NOW!!!!!!! HOW did you know the drawers were empty?????? WERE YOU SNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPING? Who does that Mom really? How old are you? You have issues Mother. (see.......?????) And with regard to greasy hair? and having a 15 year old......I would say (and I love this one) "WELL MOM.......You raised me and I'm raising her the best way I know by the example YOU set for me......what do you want?????" Honestly woman......lol Now with that landlady......it's true - maybe she could have given you the $50 ......but she didn't. End of story. Doesn't matter HOW many times you've paid on time. You were late. There is a fee. Brain or not....BiPolar (BP) or not. Calendar or not. Tis what it tis. It's over......and you're out $50.....let it go. (and no it's not easy for me to say-.......I have no money either) HOWEVER......Christmas is NOT ruined. Christmas is what you make it. It's the spirit of the season. It's from your heart.....and not your purse. It's 1 day out of 365......and the date was picked by a Roman Catholic Pope....so PICK another.....and tell the kids.......Christmas will be on.....12-25......BUT this year you are going to celebrate THREE KINGS day -----look up the meaning.......and CELEBRATE IT. Make some new traditions.....and DON"T LET THE DAY BE RUINED. Listen here EEyore. I want you to get up in the morning.....and write positive words of affirmation on sticky notes and start loving yourself. Stop blaming everyone and take CONTROL of your life. I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR........I AM BEAUTIFUL.......I AM INTELLIGENT.......I AM WORTHY........I AM IN CHARGE........there.....that takes care of this week. NOW cut, and print........and put them all over your house. AND BELIEVE.......and as far as goodwill? SCREW washing the clothes......they BALE 90% of donated clothes anyway.......and don't care if they get things washed.....they make more money on baled clothing. TRUSH me.....worked there.......I baled 22,000 lbs of clothes a week.......we didn't sell anywhere NEAR that. BAG the baskets and DUMP them in a donation box.......they'll get used. And you'll save soap , time and electricity. Plus you'll have three baskets...... Hugs * Love Star [/QUOTE]
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