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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 384469" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>great idea, yet husband is hardly ever home. he's always working. and i dont' really need that type of help at all. i can fit everything in somehow during the day. i just really need easy child to get a grip adhere to the rules, quiet her own issues (if possible) and just simply realize hey we have something going on here. and when one family member is hurting the rest are supposed to join together like a unit not split apart with the stomping of feet what about me?</p><p> </p><p>luckily easy child hasn't blow in the house which i am grateful for. we have handled our conversations while she is out. yet it's all negative energy. and husband pushing all the time for time with me. and we aren't talkinga stroll thru the park here, he wants time if you know what i mean with-o getting ummm too graphic. he has his own issues regarding that particular issue always has. that trickle down from his last marriage. </p><p> </p><p>so, yea he's been awesome financially will do whatever it takes to help difficult child get better that way. yet i feel the stress via text with him while i'm here and he's at work. and i'm pretty good about decompartentalizing (can't spell) yet truth be known i'm not perfect and my aggrivation level will runnith over somehow.</p><p> </p><p>i'd love to get them all into family therapy with-me to be honest. here during day it's calm. there isn't any yelling or arguing etc. going on or anything that would really set our house on fire. yet it's the overall tension that i personally feel especially with-easy child and last week was great with-husband home and the other kids. yet this week he's really dug his heels in. and as much as i try to explain to him, set your emotions aside for a minute and really think about what your b*tching about it is in the overall scope of things irrelevant right now. it goes nowhere quick.</p><p> </p><p>environmental i think is a huge factor with kids like ours i truly think. we never speak of that it's always the behaviors, medications, acting out etc. yet their environment truly does matter. and it's almost like us chasing our tales........ because our kids drain us, challenge us, and push us to our brink almost daily and leave us tapped out with-nothing almost left to give the rest of the ppl in our home or ourselves, than tension rises due to our difficult child's. it's like a vicious circle almost.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 384469, member: 4514"] great idea, yet husband is hardly ever home. he's always working. and i dont' really need that type of help at all. i can fit everything in somehow during the day. i just really need easy child to get a grip adhere to the rules, quiet her own issues (if possible) and just simply realize hey we have something going on here. and when one family member is hurting the rest are supposed to join together like a unit not split apart with the stomping of feet what about me? luckily easy child hasn't blow in the house which i am grateful for. we have handled our conversations while she is out. yet it's all negative energy. and husband pushing all the time for time with me. and we aren't talkinga stroll thru the park here, he wants time if you know what i mean with-o getting ummm too graphic. he has his own issues regarding that particular issue always has. that trickle down from his last marriage. so, yea he's been awesome financially will do whatever it takes to help difficult child get better that way. yet i feel the stress via text with him while i'm here and he's at work. and i'm pretty good about decompartentalizing (can't spell) yet truth be known i'm not perfect and my aggrivation level will runnith over somehow. i'd love to get them all into family therapy with-me to be honest. here during day it's calm. there isn't any yelling or arguing etc. going on or anything that would really set our house on fire. yet it's the overall tension that i personally feel especially with-easy child and last week was great with-husband home and the other kids. yet this week he's really dug his heels in. and as much as i try to explain to him, set your emotions aside for a minute and really think about what your b*tching about it is in the overall scope of things irrelevant right now. it goes nowhere quick. environmental i think is a huge factor with kids like ours i truly think. we never speak of that it's always the behaviors, medications, acting out etc. yet their environment truly does matter. and it's almost like us chasing our tales........ because our kids drain us, challenge us, and push us to our brink almost daily and leave us tapped out with-nothing almost left to give the rest of the ppl in our home or ourselves, than tension rises due to our difficult child's. it's like a vicious circle almost. [/QUOTE]
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