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My four year old is abusive!
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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 216453" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>My guess is it is all about the new baby. And there are more things to do to those around you at four. I have photos of my son at that age and he does look deamond posessed. He cut his own hair and the deamon look is their.</p><p></p><p>I used the schedual to wear him out at differant times during the day. Big run arounds we called them. ANd I used the tub as a neutral place to deposit him where he could and did play to his hearts content giving me some downish time or to get something done.</p><p>Having a buddy for playdates does that help or not? I found after about two that having the buddies together kept them involved at playing. </p><p>REmove the toys he does not want to share first. </p><p>Can you get some mothers helper in with you for part of the day? Try greeting your four year old without your baby in arms when you arrive from separations from him, also. Make some time to be just with him.</p><p>You are just introducing the infant and it is not easy...and you are an adult. Your little guy is having his world turn upside down and he may be a good talker but he does not have enough language to expprss hhow he feels.</p><p>Maybe play therapy. Do you have a rice table? Do you have clay for the four year old? CAn you structure more patterns into his day so he feels renewed interst in what he can do?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 216453, member: 6271"] My guess is it is all about the new baby. And there are more things to do to those around you at four. I have photos of my son at that age and he does look deamond posessed. He cut his own hair and the deamon look is their. I used the schedual to wear him out at differant times during the day. Big run arounds we called them. ANd I used the tub as a neutral place to deposit him where he could and did play to his hearts content giving me some downish time or to get something done. Having a buddy for playdates does that help or not? I found after about two that having the buddies together kept them involved at playing. REmove the toys he does not want to share first. Can you get some mothers helper in with you for part of the day? Try greeting your four year old without your baby in arms when you arrive from separations from him, also. Make some time to be just with him. You are just introducing the infant and it is not easy...and you are an adult. Your little guy is having his world turn upside down and he may be a good talker but he does not have enough language to expprss hhow he feels. Maybe play therapy. Do you have a rice table? Do you have clay for the four year old? CAn you structure more patterns into his day so he feels renewed interst in what he can do? [/QUOTE]
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