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My friend seem to freak out over nothing
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<blockquote data-quote="savior no more" data-source="post: 698477" data-attributes="member: 19838"><p>What I have encountered with my son is that any time someone older is his "friend" it is either to get drugs from him, have him sell their drugs, or have some other type of inappropriate (in my opinion due to age difference) relationship with him. Normal people just don't hang out with these Difficult Child's - most people with good boundaries would not entangle themselves. </p><p>I would have a hunch that there was something that upset the woman concerning her daughter knowing this woman and that is what was going on. This last go round of county jail with my son who is 20 had an older woman from another town calling me and professing to care so much about him. Totally inappropriate as she has a child his age and what I figure is she was worried he would talk about her dealings. She even sent an e-mail to his court appointed attorney chastising him for the outcome, much to my chagrin. I acted like I didn't know who it was and sent him a lengthy thank you for what he had done for a pittance of money. Another older man and his son whom my son has known since they were young was supposedly interested in helping my son get an attorney. This older man owns the Hispanic newspaper but I was thinking what in the world - no person in their right mind would do this and get in someone else's business. I have met both him and his wife and they are traditional, old-school and very proper so maybe they did just care about this kid as we had taken his son many times camping when they were younger.</p><p>In these cases there is a certain type of predatory relationship going on in my mind when someone much older hangs out with younger people.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="savior no more, post: 698477, member: 19838"] What I have encountered with my son is that any time someone older is his "friend" it is either to get drugs from him, have him sell their drugs, or have some other type of inappropriate (in my opinion due to age difference) relationship with him. Normal people just don't hang out with these Difficult Child's - most people with good boundaries would not entangle themselves. I would have a hunch that there was something that upset the woman concerning her daughter knowing this woman and that is what was going on. This last go round of county jail with my son who is 20 had an older woman from another town calling me and professing to care so much about him. Totally inappropriate as she has a child his age and what I figure is she was worried he would talk about her dealings. She even sent an e-mail to his court appointed attorney chastising him for the outcome, much to my chagrin. I acted like I didn't know who it was and sent him a lengthy thank you for what he had done for a pittance of money. Another older man and his son whom my son has known since they were young was supposedly interested in helping my son get an attorney. This older man owns the Hispanic newspaper but I was thinking what in the world - no person in their right mind would do this and get in someone else's business. I have met both him and his wife and they are traditional, old-school and very proper so maybe they did just care about this kid as we had taken his son many times camping when they were younger. In these cases there is a certain type of predatory relationship going on in my mind when someone much older hangs out with younger people. [/QUOTE]
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