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My fugitive in jail! She is on her own.
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<blockquote data-quote="Rhonda" data-source="post: 258900" data-attributes="member: 6732"><p>Thanks Suz.. but that is not my situation. She never asks for anything. I personally think that she will not want to come home at all, I will be shocked if she actually does call and ask me to come get her. The one thing I have done is instill in her the knowledge that when I lay down a rule, I don't budge. She has never pushed that much. If she doesn't want to follow a rule of mine she just ignores it and faces the consequences or she leaves. She knows that the actual "lack of sucking up" bothers me as much as anything. I don't understand a person who will not **** it up when they need something. She knows that and never does it..... she does not live her life with rules...</p><p> </p><p>My offer would be truly generous. But it is easy to be generous when you are pretty sure that it will not be accepted. I would jump for joy if it were. I would love for her to at least think about accepting it even if it were for a couple of days. It would give me the opportunity to show her "tough love" if she doesn't walk the line. If she goes off on her own... she just gets her way without trying at all.</p><p> </p><p>I may be off base here. Wish I were, but I don't think so. We will see. No need to worry too much unless she actually calls or shows up.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks Suz.. I do know where you are coming from.. most of her friends are exactly that way.. They all think she should be in jail.</p><p> </p><p>Rhonda</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rhonda, post: 258900, member: 6732"] Thanks Suz.. but that is not my situation. She never asks for anything. I personally think that she will not want to come home at all, I will be shocked if she actually does call and ask me to come get her. The one thing I have done is instill in her the knowledge that when I lay down a rule, I don't budge. She has never pushed that much. If she doesn't want to follow a rule of mine she just ignores it and faces the consequences or she leaves. She knows that the actual "lack of sucking up" bothers me as much as anything. I don't understand a person who will not **** it up when they need something. She knows that and never does it..... she does not live her life with rules... My offer would be truly generous. But it is easy to be generous when you are pretty sure that it will not be accepted. I would jump for joy if it were. I would love for her to at least think about accepting it even if it were for a couple of days. It would give me the opportunity to show her "tough love" if she doesn't walk the line. If she goes off on her own... she just gets her way without trying at all. I may be off base here. Wish I were, but I don't think so. We will see. No need to worry too much unless she actually calls or shows up. Thanks Suz.. I do know where you are coming from.. most of her friends are exactly that way.. They all think she should be in jail. Rhonda [/QUOTE]
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