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My h stays angry and upset about our difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 535240" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>PV, Cory is our biological son and Tony has been has angry and completely done with him over the years as your husband is now. Heck there are times now that he wants to be rid of him forever. He really seems to dislike him for the most part and Cory feels it deeply and it hurts him badly. It has gotten so bad that we have ended up in huge fights where Tony screams that I always take Cory's side over him but that isnt true, I only take his side when Tony is being completely irrational. I am put in the middle far too often. It was far worse when Cory lived here but Cory works with him. They were getting along fine with that until Tony hired his brother...Tony's brother...and now it appears Cory can do nothing right and Tony's brother can do no wrong, at least to Tony but to everyone else the brother is the biggest slacker on the job. Tony ends up in arguments with others over his brother and takes them out on Cory. Its a mess. When his brother lived here, I got the blame for everything, now Cory does. Sigh. Never the brother. </p><p></p><p>Tony blames Cory even now for things he did 10 to 12 years ago. It has been 6 years since Cory stole from us and Tony cant get over it. If so much as a screwdriver goes missing in this house, Tony jumps to the conclusion that Cory has been here and stolen it. Most of the time Tony finds the stupid thing someplace he put it down and forgot it. Tony wont help Cory at all but he will go out of his way to help his brother. The other day his brother walked into our house without knocking and snuck up on us at 9:30 at night to do a load of laundry. We were just about ready to go to bed. We were laying down on the couch and never heard him come in until we saw his shadow on the floor of the kitchen, then I yelled what the hell are you doing here? He said...I came to do a load of laundry. I said there are laundry mats for that. He just laughed and said yeah but they cost money! So we had to stay up until his laundry was done. </p><p></p><p>I got mad about that and Tony said I wouldnt be mad if Cory walked in the house without knocking so why would I get mad about his brother! I told him people I give birth to can walk in my house without knocking or calling first. No one else. Its only good manners. Evidently neither one of them no what those are. I could have been naked as a jay bird.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 535240, member: 1514"] PV, Cory is our biological son and Tony has been has angry and completely done with him over the years as your husband is now. Heck there are times now that he wants to be rid of him forever. He really seems to dislike him for the most part and Cory feels it deeply and it hurts him badly. It has gotten so bad that we have ended up in huge fights where Tony screams that I always take Cory's side over him but that isnt true, I only take his side when Tony is being completely irrational. I am put in the middle far too often. It was far worse when Cory lived here but Cory works with him. They were getting along fine with that until Tony hired his brother...Tony's brother...and now it appears Cory can do nothing right and Tony's brother can do no wrong, at least to Tony but to everyone else the brother is the biggest slacker on the job. Tony ends up in arguments with others over his brother and takes them out on Cory. Its a mess. When his brother lived here, I got the blame for everything, now Cory does. Sigh. Never the brother. Tony blames Cory even now for things he did 10 to 12 years ago. It has been 6 years since Cory stole from us and Tony cant get over it. If so much as a screwdriver goes missing in this house, Tony jumps to the conclusion that Cory has been here and stolen it. Most of the time Tony finds the stupid thing someplace he put it down and forgot it. Tony wont help Cory at all but he will go out of his way to help his brother. The other day his brother walked into our house without knocking and snuck up on us at 9:30 at night to do a load of laundry. We were just about ready to go to bed. We were laying down on the couch and never heard him come in until we saw his shadow on the floor of the kitchen, then I yelled what the hell are you doing here? He said...I came to do a load of laundry. I said there are laundry mats for that. He just laughed and said yeah but they cost money! So we had to stay up until his laundry was done. I got mad about that and Tony said I wouldnt be mad if Cory walked in the house without knocking so why would I get mad about his brother! I told him people I give birth to can walk in my house without knocking or calling first. No one else. Its only good manners. Evidently neither one of them no what those are. I could have been naked as a jay bird. [/QUOTE]
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