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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 118555" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>And.....on the lighter side.....</p><p></p><p>If it is difficult child's kid, raised by a difficult child sister - would you really WANT contact with another potential difficult child child? </p><p></p><p>(ducking ugly stares of daggers) </p><p></p><p>I guess after reading Witz, D3, and Abbey's replies - maybe the most shocking statement would be "OKAY THAT IS GREAT NEWS." </p><p></p><p>I just really have no more advice for your situation. But I have an adopted 24 year old daughter with 2 children from 2 different fathers and what a piece of work. I don't hear from her much and I'm greatful for that. I held her 1st born at 11 inches and under 2 lbs. I had grandma fever, did the first birthday party and then the difficult child mom thing kicked in - and I had Dude - so she just went off and did her own thing - and now both girls are mean, rude, abusive to animals, not bright- and while it's sad. She made her decision, with HER children, and I detached completely from her so I'm not involved anymore at all - </p><p></p><p>When I do hear them in the background on the few phone calls I do get from her - to tell me SHE is getting a new doublewide, SHE is driving a nicer car than mine, SHE is going shopping with the money the state gives her for having two preemies - I just say "That's nice dear." If I had been involved in her life 1 on 1 - I believe I would be dead. Instead I chose to live my life and let her and her kids live theirs. </p><p></p><p>DF's daughter is also a poo - she never called us until the child was 3. He sent presents for all at Christmas and a WOB of cash for her birthday and he never even got a phone call - nothing. NOt a letter, not a thank you - nothing. So at 52 he's decided it's done. I'm glad - it's been a swell ride - I'm ready for it to be just him and me and let everyone have their own problems. </p><p></p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 118555, member: 4964"] And.....on the lighter side..... If it is difficult child's kid, raised by a difficult child sister - would you really WANT contact with another potential difficult child child? (ducking ugly stares of daggers) I guess after reading Witz, D3, and Abbey's replies - maybe the most shocking statement would be "OKAY THAT IS GREAT NEWS." I just really have no more advice for your situation. But I have an adopted 24 year old daughter with 2 children from 2 different fathers and what a piece of work. I don't hear from her much and I'm greatful for that. I held her 1st born at 11 inches and under 2 lbs. I had grandma fever, did the first birthday party and then the difficult child mom thing kicked in - and I had Dude - so she just went off and did her own thing - and now both girls are mean, rude, abusive to animals, not bright- and while it's sad. She made her decision, with HER children, and I detached completely from her so I'm not involved anymore at all - When I do hear them in the background on the few phone calls I do get from her - to tell me SHE is getting a new doublewide, SHE is driving a nicer car than mine, SHE is going shopping with the money the state gives her for having two preemies - I just say "That's nice dear." If I had been involved in her life 1 on 1 - I believe I would be dead. Instead I chose to live my life and let her and her kids live theirs. DF's daughter is also a poo - she never called us until the child was 3. He sent presents for all at Christmas and a WOB of cash for her birthday and he never even got a phone call - nothing. NOt a letter, not a thank you - nothing. So at 52 he's decided it's done. I'm glad - it's been a swell ride - I'm ready for it to be just him and me and let everyone have their own problems. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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