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My husband and I are Detaching
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 604810" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Don't let her blame you. You are all adults here and she had the ability to put her foot down. It isn't your fault unless you didn't tell her what was going on with him. Even then, she never had to take him in and I wouldn't pay a fortune because she's upset that he's there now. She can evict him. It's the only way he will REALLY leave. Like you said, he will just sell his motel room. Has she turned him in to the police for using drugs or vandalizing or doing anything legally wrong?</p><p></p><p>Unless you held a gun to your friend's head, you didn't force her to take these two into her home, even if you begged her. But I hope you learned not to try to help them. The cost is too high to everyone with these adult kids. I would not ever trust them until they are clean for five years straight and even then there can be relapses...in short, you will always have to be very careful with him.</p><p></p><p>I hope this resolves itself and the two of them leave on their own. Can't she make it so miserable for them that they go? Why not blast old fashion music or run the vacuum at 6am outside of their room or make sure all the food is locked up, etc. I doubt any judge will have much pity for them once they go to court. DO NOT FUND THEM A LAWYER!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 604810, member: 1550"] Don't let her blame you. You are all adults here and she had the ability to put her foot down. It isn't your fault unless you didn't tell her what was going on with him. Even then, she never had to take him in and I wouldn't pay a fortune because she's upset that he's there now. She can evict him. It's the only way he will REALLY leave. Like you said, he will just sell his motel room. Has she turned him in to the police for using drugs or vandalizing or doing anything legally wrong? Unless you held a gun to your friend's head, you didn't force her to take these two into her home, even if you begged her. But I hope you learned not to try to help them. The cost is too high to everyone with these adult kids. I would not ever trust them until they are clean for five years straight and even then there can be relapses...in short, you will always have to be very careful with him. I hope this resolves itself and the two of them leave on their own. Can't she make it so miserable for them that they go? Why not blast old fashion music or run the vacuum at 6am outside of their room or make sure all the food is locked up, etc. I doubt any judge will have much pity for them once they go to court. DO NOT FUND THEM A LAWYER! [/QUOTE]
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