Is he counselor a specialist in Aspergers? These kids are tricky when it comes to counseling. It often just does not work.
Has your son had any Occupational Therapist (OT) or PT? He sounds more mood disorderish than spectrumish to me. I would get a second opinion and go to a neuropsychologist. I never heard of a neurologist making these sorts of diagnoses. For the most part, they stick to epilepsy and things like that, not disorders that require extensive testing.
