Hi Renea, I'm glad you made it through that crisis with-the couch almost being overturned. been there done that.
Yes, with-the sensory issues you describe, that really sounds like spectrum to me.
And that he can't tell about rudeness or sarcasm.
I've never heard of that medication before. I'll look it up. We use clonidine. It helps a lot.
Once your husband comes home, you two will have to sit down and discuss the new way of parenting you will have. It is very different having a kid on the spectrum.
{{hugs}}