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Hi & welcome.  A few things come to mind from your post.


If you would hazard a guess what developmental age do you think your difficult child is displaying?


I ask this because I adopted older twins (almost 7) & have learned the hard way that both of them lost so much in their unhealthy bio environment.


We have had to go back & basically "redo" or teach the tweedles skills they hadn't learned (for whatever reason) from day one.  wm is testing emotionally/developmentally at around 3.2 years of age; kt coming in at almost 6 years of age.


So while I have 12 going on 13 y/o children, I'm parenting & teaching skills at entirely different age level.  Filling in the blanks, if you will.


My tweedles are just now learning self calming skills, boundary recognition, a bit of impulse control, trusting primary caregivers, cause & effect, etc.  Things most children learn in a healthy caring environment.


Just something to consider.


Again welcome.


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