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<blockquote data-quote="cher" data-source="post: 557648" data-attributes="member: 1731"><p>I am the mother of 2 27/29 my 27 year old daughter is married and we have no relationship. My son is a angry person he spent 10 years in prision and has been out for 2 years. He has in this time fathered 2 children by 2 women. He looks forjobs once in a while but with his record can not find one. MY husband and I are living in a cycle of his anger and threats etc. He acts like a 17 year old party party party. I walk on egg shells cause when he is angry he says really mean things. Then I am sorry etc but does not do anything to change behavior. I took him to an doctor who said he was add/bi polar paid for medications and he said they were a waste. Took him to anger management it was a waste. Well he is back in jail again and I am not baiking him out when I said no on the phone threats screaming etc. He hung up on me. Then tried calling back 7 times. My only thought was thank god he was not in person. I have been in this circle since he was 17. He does whatever then I help him out based on promises. I know I am an enabler I see it, when he does not get his way he tells me he will not talk to me like my daughter or the big one I will not ever see his kids, (which I am the one that pays some child surport to help the moms out). I am like a dog chasing my tail and i need to stop. I feel so guilty. Well that is a brief history of me. I really look back and think what the hell did I do so wrong to either of these kids. I feel like a total loser as a parent and find myself being jealous of normal families. I do not go out much cause I fill like a debbie downer and do not want to tell my story even though ppl see how he is. I am glad to have found this thread. Sorry if ranting I just am so full of emotions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="cher, post: 557648, member: 1731"] I am the mother of 2 27/29 my 27 year old daughter is married and we have no relationship. My son is a angry person he spent 10 years in prision and has been out for 2 years. He has in this time fathered 2 children by 2 women. He looks forjobs once in a while but with his record can not find one. MY husband and I are living in a cycle of his anger and threats etc. He acts like a 17 year old party party party. I walk on egg shells cause when he is angry he says really mean things. Then I am sorry etc but does not do anything to change behavior. I took him to an doctor who said he was add/bi polar paid for medications and he said they were a waste. Took him to anger management it was a waste. Well he is back in jail again and I am not baiking him out when I said no on the phone threats screaming etc. He hung up on me. Then tried calling back 7 times. My only thought was thank god he was not in person. I have been in this circle since he was 17. He does whatever then I help him out based on promises. I know I am an enabler I see it, when he does not get his way he tells me he will not talk to me like my daughter or the big one I will not ever see his kids, (which I am the one that pays some child surport to help the moms out). I am like a dog chasing my tail and i need to stop. I feel so guilty. Well that is a brief history of me. I really look back and think what the hell did I do so wrong to either of these kids. I feel like a total loser as a parent and find myself being jealous of normal families. I do not go out much cause I fill like a debbie downer and do not want to tell my story even though ppl see how he is. I am glad to have found this thread. Sorry if ranting I just am so full of emotions. [/QUOTE]
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