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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 245033" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">There are days I'm sure I'm in over my head especially since husband died. kt had a real bond with husband; "he was the first man I ever trusted, mom". But that took 3 years or so.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">I agree Marg, the condoms aren't an indication of kt engaging in sex. Her being on birth control isn't either. It's more an indication or a blatant sign that says "hurt me again....hurt me again....I'm a victim". </span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">It's in her makeup after her early abuse. My baby girl did the strip tease on my island for husband. She wanted to "make you happy, daddy". husband was devastated & wanted to pull away for his own safety. After much counseling he learned to be a dad for his little girl. She had to learn, trust, after much counseling, that a dad didn't "use" his baby like that.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">kt's boundaries & thought processes are all out of wack. Saying that, we had a good intake at day treatment & kt is really psyched to be going back there. She's smiled for 2 days straight. AND it's amazing how many of the skills she's learned there are coming to light again. I'm delighted.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">She will have to clean up her wardrobe for school ~ it's very strict. Absolutely no sexual talk or phrases of any kind. No sharing of anything including phone numbers & email addresses. I love that ~ I've had to block more telephone numbers from our phone & kt's cell than you can imagine. I call them stalker boys after kt insists that they be blocked. She needs to learn to discern the boys that are "safe" & those that are users & unsafe.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'">Thank you all for your input & kind words of wisdom. It's always a relief, of sorts, to come here. A way to clear my mind & see things clearly.</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 245033, member: 393"] [SIZE=3][FONT=Comic Sans MS]There are days I'm sure I'm in over my head especially since husband died. kt had a real bond with husband; "he was the first man I ever trusted, mom". But that took 3 years or so. I agree Marg, the condoms aren't an indication of kt engaging in sex. Her being on birth control isn't either. It's more an indication or a blatant sign that says "hurt me again....hurt me again....I'm a victim". It's in her makeup after her early abuse. My baby girl did the strip tease on my island for husband. She wanted to "make you happy, daddy". husband was devastated & wanted to pull away for his own safety. After much counseling he learned to be a dad for his little girl. She had to learn, trust, after much counseling, that a dad didn't "use" his baby like that. kt's boundaries & thought processes are all out of wack. Saying that, we had a good intake at day treatment & kt is really psyched to be going back there. She's smiled for 2 days straight. AND it's amazing how many of the skills she's learned there are coming to light again. I'm delighted. She will have to clean up her wardrobe for school ~ it's very strict. Absolutely no sexual talk or phrases of any kind. No sharing of anything including phone numbers & email addresses. I love that ~ I've had to block more telephone numbers from our phone & kt's cell than you can imagine. I call them stalker boys after kt insists that they be blocked. She needs to learn to discern the boys that are "safe" & those that are users & unsafe. Thank you all for your input & kind words of wisdom. It's always a relief, of sorts, to come here. A way to clear my mind & see things clearly. [/FONT][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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