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My son burned our house down.
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 687498" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I agree with the others. You cannot live in circumstances where you feel unsafe and are unsafe and most of all, submit your children, birth or adopted to imminent, ongoing danger.</p><p></p><p>These are all true things, that must be acted upon. There are times in this life when there is no best option, only the best of the worst. Even if there is risk, how can you justify keeping this child where he could potentially murder your kids, other kids, other people--and you know about the risk. There is huge potential culpability and liability here. </p><p></p><p>That is why the insurance company is not paying. They are holding you responsible because you should have known. I learned that recently about insurance, from my agent. He said that insurance companies can get out of liability if the homeowner should have taken reasonable proactive steps and did not. Of course the real risk is not material. It is human life. You are cornered, here. You must act.</p><p></p><p>I agree with this:Or maybe get consults from both a family law attorney and another attorney who can help you with the insurance. I would think an astute attorney could help you with your claim for the house.</p><p></p><p>A family law attorney can lay out your options and the potential ramifications of each. You know, though, that doing nothing will have its own set of ramifications. From this fact you cannot turn away, I think.Of course you do not want to be charged with abandonment. A good family law attorney will tell you how to do this. Last week I found an article on the internet from a newspaper or magazine, I do not remember which. I posted it here. It was about parents who felt forced to surrender their children, birth and adopted in order that they receive mental health services which they needed for which insurance would not pay. These parents felt the only way that their kids could get this essential help was by relinquishing parental rights. </p><p></p><p>I would not think that these parents would have taken this step if they felt they or their other children would be at risk.</p><p></p><p>Finally, I want to tell you how sorry I am that you have found yourself in this terrible situation. I am an adoptive mother. While we have had our share of challenges I thank G-d that I have not had to confront something as difficult and challenging.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are here with us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 687498, member: 18958"] I agree with the others. You cannot live in circumstances where you feel unsafe and are unsafe and most of all, submit your children, birth or adopted to imminent, ongoing danger. These are all true things, that must be acted upon. There are times in this life when there is no best option, only the best of the worst. Even if there is risk, how can you justify keeping this child where he could potentially murder your kids, other kids, other people--and you know about the risk. There is huge potential culpability and liability here. That is why the insurance company is not paying. They are holding you responsible because you should have known. I learned that recently about insurance, from my agent. He said that insurance companies can get out of liability if the homeowner should have taken reasonable proactive steps and did not. Of course the real risk is not material. It is human life. You are cornered, here. You must act. I agree with this:Or maybe get consults from both a family law attorney and another attorney who can help you with the insurance. I would think an astute attorney could help you with your claim for the house. A family law attorney can lay out your options and the potential ramifications of each. You know, though, that doing nothing will have its own set of ramifications. From this fact you cannot turn away, I think.Of course you do not want to be charged with abandonment. A good family law attorney will tell you how to do this. Last week I found an article on the internet from a newspaper or magazine, I do not remember which. I posted it here. It was about parents who felt forced to surrender their children, birth and adopted in order that they receive mental health services which they needed for which insurance would not pay. These parents felt the only way that their kids could get this essential help was by relinquishing parental rights. I would not think that these parents would have taken this step if they felt they or their other children would be at risk. Finally, I want to tell you how sorry I am that you have found yourself in this terrible situation. I am an adoptive mother. While we have had our share of challenges I thank G-d that I have not had to confront something as difficult and challenging. I am glad you are here with us. [/QUOTE]
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