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My son burned our house down.
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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 697234" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>I've only read a few of the posts. Apologies if I'm repeating. I'm so very sorry for your very difficult troubles.</p><p>I would hire an attorney ASAP.</p><p>I would have your son evaluated.</p><p>I believe there is a method to reverse an adoption.</p><p>Since you have other children in the home, I think this has to be seriously considered.</p><p>I too have an adopted child, now an adult.</p><p>It has been extraordinarily difficult, although not to the degree you are describing.</p><p>Nevertheless, it has had a profound effect on my finances, marriage, career, health etc.</p><p>It is nothing short of a miracle we are more or less ok.</p><p>She has a good heart (usually), but is mentally ill, impulsive, and so forth. It took and takes its toll.</p><p>See an attorney, preferably with adoption experience, ASAP. If the first one won't help, see another.</p><p>PS I have a friend with an adopted child (from the state) and somehow she was able to get free residential treatment fully paid for by the state. This was helpful and appreciated. She (my friend, the adoptive mom) is now divorced and very sick. She never remarried. The father and the bio son don't speak. Their family is a mess. Extreme stress takes its toll.</p><p></p><p>Again, since you have other children in the home, you have to protect them and consider their safety and their futures.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 697234, member: 4152"] I've only read a few of the posts. Apologies if I'm repeating. I'm so very sorry for your very difficult troubles. I would hire an attorney ASAP. I would have your son evaluated. I believe there is a method to reverse an adoption. Since you have other children in the home, I think this has to be seriously considered. I too have an adopted child, now an adult. It has been extraordinarily difficult, although not to the degree you are describing. Nevertheless, it has had a profound effect on my finances, marriage, career, health etc. It is nothing short of a miracle we are more or less ok. She has a good heart (usually), but is mentally ill, impulsive, and so forth. It took and takes its toll. See an attorney, preferably with adoption experience, ASAP. If the first one won't help, see another. PS I have a friend with an adopted child (from the state) and somehow she was able to get free residential treatment fully paid for by the state. This was helpful and appreciated. She (my friend, the adoptive mom) is now divorced and very sick. She never remarried. The father and the bio son don't speak. Their family is a mess. Extreme stress takes its toll. Again, since you have other children in the home, you have to protect them and consider their safety and their futures. [/QUOTE]
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