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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 761124" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Dear Lovemysons:</p><p></p><p>There was so much hurt and loss in these years for each of us, for so many of us. So much fear and helplessness. </p><p></p><p>I too often closed down. Or became angry and rejecting. Too often I tried to control what I could not. I imposed conditions and rules, and none of them worked. The great love I have for my own son became eclipsed by my helplessness and fear.</p><p></p><p>I am not comparing here. I am only communicating that you love him and loved your son with all of your heart and soul. You rode the crest of that wave, even though you could have become submerged in the wave of fear and helplessness that I have given into all too often. You lived your love and so did he.</p><p> </p><p>As much as this is the story of a man who was too perfect for this world, this is a heroes story: A heroic Mom who never ever lost touch with her love under the most difficult, tragic and trying circumstances. This is a great love story.</p><p></p><p>I am so very honored and grateful that you came back here to us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 761124, member: 18958"] Dear Lovemysons: There was so much hurt and loss in these years for each of us, for so many of us. So much fear and helplessness. I too often closed down. Or became angry and rejecting. Too often I tried to control what I could not. I imposed conditions and rules, and none of them worked. The great love I have for my own son became eclipsed by my helplessness and fear. I am not comparing here. I am only communicating that you love him and loved your son with all of your heart and soul. You rode the crest of that wave, even though you could have become submerged in the wave of fear and helplessness that I have given into all too often. You lived your love and so did he. As much as this is the story of a man who was too perfect for this world, this is a heroes story: A heroic Mom who never ever lost touch with her love under the most difficult, tragic and trying circumstances. This is a great love story. I am so very honored and grateful that you came back here to us. [/QUOTE]
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