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My son is spiraling down
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<blockquote data-quote="Quicksand" data-source="post: 674892" data-attributes="member: 19405"><p>My son received his diagnosis yesterday. Borderline (BPD) with PTSD. He said he was molested at cub scouts. But we were there at every meeting and camp out, my husband or I. We talked to our kids about that kind of stuff and I thought they knew they could come to us. How did I not see the signs? Why did he never say anything until now? I am deeply sad and ashamed that we didn't see this. This is a living hell. My daughter doesn't want to come home from school for Christmas because she's afraid of what the dynamic here will be. She barely passing her classes and frankly, I feel like a terrible mother. My son seems more stable than ever and I feel like I'm drowning. My husband buries himself in work and is emotionally absent. I know I need a therapist but can't stomach the thought of having to tell someone how royally I've screwed everyone up. I just want to curl up in a ball.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Quicksand, post: 674892, member: 19405"] My son received his diagnosis yesterday. Borderline (BPD) with PTSD. He said he was molested at cub scouts. But we were there at every meeting and camp out, my husband or I. We talked to our kids about that kind of stuff and I thought they knew they could come to us. How did I not see the signs? Why did he never say anything until now? I am deeply sad and ashamed that we didn't see this. This is a living hell. My daughter doesn't want to come home from school for Christmas because she's afraid of what the dynamic here will be. She barely passing her classes and frankly, I feel like a terrible mother. My son seems more stable than ever and I feel like I'm drowning. My husband buries himself in work and is emotionally absent. I know I need a therapist but can't stomach the thought of having to tell someone how royally I've screwed everyone up. I just want to curl up in a ball. [/QUOTE]
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