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<blockquote data-quote="SunnyFlorida" data-source="post: 71520" data-attributes="member: 696"><p>SWC - difficult child can ride a bike, take a bus, walk, hitchhike. difficult child can learn to schedule multiple appts in one day, learn to take a class online. difficult child can learn to multitask. difficult child can learn what happens if he doesn't have dental care, doctors care, doesn't go to probation. difficult child is 24 and not mentally deficient. difficult child has the ability to work, think, act, and face consequences. difficult child chooses to use and difficult child must choose not to use if difficult child wants assistance from family.</p><p></p><p>Do to get. keep saying this, do to get, say it over and over along with the serenity prayer. </p><p></p><p>***I posted this for you in the Teens/SA forum** :smile:</p><p></p><p>Please ask yourself why do you want to shoulder everyone's problems? You will feel much stronger, much more in control, and your homelife will be much happier and calmer if you just repeat, "we didnt cause it, cant cure it, and cant control it. We begin to learn the basic Al-Anon premise of taking our focus off of the alcoholic and keeping the focus on ourselves." </p><p></p><p>This might help too.</p><p><a href="http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/info2/a/aa981225.htm" target="_blank">http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/info2/a/aa981225.htm</a></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SunnyFlorida, post: 71520, member: 696"] SWC - difficult child can ride a bike, take a bus, walk, hitchhike. difficult child can learn to schedule multiple appts in one day, learn to take a class online. difficult child can learn to multitask. difficult child can learn what happens if he doesn't have dental care, doctors care, doesn't go to probation. difficult child is 24 and not mentally deficient. difficult child has the ability to work, think, act, and face consequences. difficult child chooses to use and difficult child must choose not to use if difficult child wants assistance from family. Do to get. keep saying this, do to get, say it over and over along with the serenity prayer. ***I posted this for you in the Teens/SA forum** [img]:smile:[/img] Please ask yourself why do you want to shoulder everyone's problems? You will feel much stronger, much more in control, and your homelife will be much happier and calmer if you just repeat, "we didnt cause it, cant cure it, and cant control it. We begin to learn the basic Al-Anon premise of taking our focus off of the alcoholic and keeping the focus on ourselves." This might help too. [url="http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/info2/a/aa981225.htm"]http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/info2/a/aa981225.htm[/url] [/QUOTE]
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