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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 255336" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Actually, your 3rd is the only one I do agree with. LOL! I thinkk difficult child learned to play me against the system and vice versa as much as anything. the first suggestion- I just can't regret it under the circumstances and situation at the time. I won't get into it all again but I would make the same choice. If the judge agreed with it, I can't beleive I'm the only one who thought it was a reasonable and competent decision. As far as the 2nd: I was under oath during testimony and questioning by gal. I have no idea why she had to know everything about my life- I found it all uncomfortable and a violation in a way. But, I could not hold this info back after she had already threatened dss and so forth before. The fact that I revealed those things about my family was the only thing that kept dss from calling my bro right away before yesterday. I really had no choice on that one, Janet, if I was going to protect difficult child from them. These people (GAL, PO, Judge, etc) had been trying to force me to let difficult child have more contact with my family. They had to know why I was not comfortable with that. The gal had been trying to blame me for all difficult child's problems from the very beginning- my position was that if they were ever going to remove difficult child from my custody for any reason or if something happened to me, that I did not think it was in difficult child's best interest to send him to my family. Being on the witness stand, I pretty much had to answer the 5 million questions the GAL asked before and after.</p><p></p><p>As far as him coming home- I don't think he will ever live with me again before his 18th birthday. So, I hope they are all right- I sincerely hope this commitment was in difficult child's best interest.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 255336, member: 3699"] Actually, your 3rd is the only one I do agree with. LOL! I thinkk difficult child learned to play me against the system and vice versa as much as anything. the first suggestion- I just can't regret it under the circumstances and situation at the time. I won't get into it all again but I would make the same choice. If the judge agreed with it, I can't beleive I'm the only one who thought it was a reasonable and competent decision. As far as the 2nd: I was under oath during testimony and questioning by gal. I have no idea why she had to know everything about my life- I found it all uncomfortable and a violation in a way. But, I could not hold this info back after she had already threatened dss and so forth before. The fact that I revealed those things about my family was the only thing that kept dss from calling my bro right away before yesterday. I really had no choice on that one, Janet, if I was going to protect difficult child from them. These people (GAL, PO, Judge, etc) had been trying to force me to let difficult child have more contact with my family. They had to know why I was not comfortable with that. The gal had been trying to blame me for all difficult child's problems from the very beginning- my position was that if they were ever going to remove difficult child from my custody for any reason or if something happened to me, that I did not think it was in difficult child's best interest to send him to my family. Being on the witness stand, I pretty much had to answer the 5 million questions the GAL asked before and after. As far as him coming home- I don't think he will ever live with me again before his 18th birthday. So, I hope they are all right- I sincerely hope this commitment was in difficult child's best interest. [/QUOTE]
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