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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 277849" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">In your zeal to make Nichole tell you the truth, do you think that kind of pressure would ever make her tell Aubrey not to tell you such things in the future?</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Just something that popped into my mind as I was reading through the posts. While I think it's important for you to help Nichole understand the ramifications of her daughter witnessing this kind of abuse between her mommy and daddy, I don't know that pressing her to 'tell you the truth' is all that necessary just yet. It may only make Nichole dig in her heels further and pull away, protect boyfriend. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">I know that with my difficult child's history, it is very easy for a boyfriend to convince her that she is the crazy one, that she's the one with the mental problems and that everything that goes wrong is somehow her fault...I am thinking of Monkeyboy here as he seemed to have the greatest hold over difficult child and he was a way worse difficult child that she ever was. He still tries to manipulate her on facebook but she won't block him. She tells me that even though she doesn't love him or want to be with him anymore, he was an important person in her life (gag me!), so she won't not let him post to her facebook. He leaves her the most insulting and hurtful comments, but in what appears to be a funny or silly way. I seem to be the only one who sees his true intention - to undermine her, make her second guess herself, and make her feel bad about herself. Ugh. These guys really stink.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: purple">Like you, I would be so angry and violent that he'd be wishing the police would intervene! There is no way they could deliver the message any stronger than I would, Lisa. Any chance you could hire a goon to take care of the little pisher? </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #800080">Holding a good thought that you're able to get through to Nichole this time round. Hugs to Aubrey.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 277849, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]In your zeal to make Nichole tell you the truth, do you think that kind of pressure would ever make her tell Aubrey not to tell you such things in the future?[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Just something that popped into my mind as I was reading through the posts. While I think it's important for you to help Nichole understand the ramifications of her daughter witnessing this kind of abuse between her mommy and daddy, I don't know that pressing her to 'tell you the truth' is all that necessary just yet. It may only make Nichole dig in her heels further and pull away, protect boyfriend. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]I know that with my difficult child's history, it is very easy for a boyfriend to convince her that she is the crazy one, that she's the one with the mental problems and that everything that goes wrong is somehow her fault...I am thinking of Monkeyboy here as he seemed to have the greatest hold over difficult child and he was a way worse difficult child that she ever was. He still tries to manipulate her on facebook but she won't block him. She tells me that even though she doesn't love him or want to be with him anymore, he was an important person in her life (gag me!), so she won't not let him post to her facebook. He leaves her the most insulting and hurtful comments, but in what appears to be a funny or silly way. I seem to be the only one who sees his true intention - to undermine her, make her second guess herself, and make her feel bad about herself. Ugh. These guys really stink.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=purple]Like you, I would be so angry and violent that he'd be wishing the police would intervene! There is no way they could deliver the message any stronger than I would, Lisa. Any chance you could hire a goon to take care of the little pisher? [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#800080][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#800080]Holding a good thought that you're able to get through to Nichole this time round. Hugs to Aubrey.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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