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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 277892" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Janet, you're right. LOL I have no fear Aubrey won't tell me. Not at this age. I'm uber close to my grands. They'd tell me. Aubrey does to some degree also because it terrifies her and when her parents behave this way it's me she comes to in order to feel safe and protected.</p><p> </p><p>Aubrey is still too young to convince not to tell, and if Nichole or boyfriend attempted to stress to her not telling......she'd tell me anyway simply because it would seem so important. Got to love that innocense. Heck, Darrin still tells on his parents when they get into spats. lol</p><p>Usually when she comes home she greets all the animals before coming to me. I should've know something was up because she crawled into my lap immediately. </p><p> </p><p>I'm rethinking the moving out. Only problem is that it would make it convienient for her to stick it out with him because nothing would be changing. Her moving out wasn't purely for selfish reasons on my part. It's also important at this stage for her to realize she's quite capable of being independent. I'm also hoping she sees boyfriend is making no, absolutely no, contribution to moving in together. Nichole is doing all the work and he's even telling her he won't get a job because it will mess up his unemployment. I have serious doubt he has any intention of moving in with her. This jerk has a serious commitment phobia. And he doesn't want to leave Mommy and Daddy. I'm hoping the "moving out" process will further help her to see he is a mega loser in the relationship dept.</p><p> </p><p>I don't need a goon to kick boyfriend's arse. Believe me. But sister in law would beat the tar outta him at my slightest whim. He may anyway if Aubrey tells her uncle that daddy hit mommy. The only reason he hasn't already is because I've asked him not to.</p><p> </p><p>I spent a year working with a dv. I know the routine. Ours here isn't very good, not bad, but just not the greatest. It's overwhelmed. Nichole knows where the hotline number is and also where it's located due to K.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for the links. I'll look them over and see if I've forgotten anything. Heather, I'll tell her, thanks. I didn't pressure her last night at all. I never do. I just simply asked her if what Aubrey had told me was the truth, when she denied it I dropped it. I can read by her body language if she's open for discussion. She wasn't.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks for the support. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 277892, member: 84"] Janet, you're right. LOL I have no fear Aubrey won't tell me. Not at this age. I'm uber close to my grands. They'd tell me. Aubrey does to some degree also because it terrifies her and when her parents behave this way it's me she comes to in order to feel safe and protected. Aubrey is still too young to convince not to tell, and if Nichole or boyfriend attempted to stress to her not telling......she'd tell me anyway simply because it would seem so important. Got to love that innocense. Heck, Darrin still tells on his parents when they get into spats. lol Usually when she comes home she greets all the animals before coming to me. I should've know something was up because she crawled into my lap immediately. I'm rethinking the moving out. Only problem is that it would make it convienient for her to stick it out with him because nothing would be changing. Her moving out wasn't purely for selfish reasons on my part. It's also important at this stage for her to realize she's quite capable of being independent. I'm also hoping she sees boyfriend is making no, absolutely no, contribution to moving in together. Nichole is doing all the work and he's even telling her he won't get a job because it will mess up his unemployment. I have serious doubt he has any intention of moving in with her. This jerk has a serious commitment phobia. And he doesn't want to leave Mommy and Daddy. I'm hoping the "moving out" process will further help her to see he is a mega loser in the relationship dept. I don't need a goon to kick boyfriend's arse. Believe me. But sister in law would beat the tar outta him at my slightest whim. He may anyway if Aubrey tells her uncle that daddy hit mommy. The only reason he hasn't already is because I've asked him not to. I spent a year working with a dv. I know the routine. Ours here isn't very good, not bad, but just not the greatest. It's overwhelmed. Nichole knows where the hotline number is and also where it's located due to K. Thanks for the links. I'll look them over and see if I've forgotten anything. Heather, I'll tell her, thanks. I didn't pressure her last night at all. I never do. I just simply asked her if what Aubrey had told me was the truth, when she denied it I dropped it. I can read by her body language if she's open for discussion. She wasn't. Thanks for the support. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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