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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 753098" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms'"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms'"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">I agree with Wise. I would try not to engage. Not one good thing can come from falling into the trap she's spinning. Between you and me, I would try to visualize her as a spider with a web. Her aim, conscious or not, is to entrap you in her emotional web. This is a kind of dominance. She wants to ensnare you. Don't let this happen. She fabricates more and more lies, because this is her web. You would not want to be caught up in a spider's web or any other toxic trap. So, why would you get caught up with her? I agree with your husband. Let it go. Run the other way. Recognize her toxicity for what it is. </span></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms'"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)"></span></span></p> <p style="text-align: left"><span style="font-family: 'trebuchet ms'"><span style="color: rgb(20, 20, 20)">She may or may not have any control over what she does. One definition of a personality disorder is seeing the world through its lens. Which is to say she is likely caught up in her own web, which she produces and reproduces. What does this have to do with you? Not a thing. We have no control over the thought patterns and choices of others. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 753098, member: 18958"] [LEFT][FONT=trebuchet ms][COLOR=rgb(20, 20, 20)] I agree with Wise. I would try not to engage. Not one good thing can come from falling into the trap she's spinning. Between you and me, I would try to visualize her as a spider with a web. Her aim, conscious or not, is to entrap you in her emotional web. This is a kind of dominance. She wants to ensnare you. Don't let this happen. She fabricates more and more lies, because this is her web. You would not want to be caught up in a spider's web or any other toxic trap. So, why would you get caught up with her? I agree with your husband. Let it go. Run the other way. Recognize her toxicity for what it is. She may or may not have any control over what she does. One definition of a personality disorder is seeing the world through its lens. Which is to say she is likely caught up in her own web, which she produces and reproduces. What does this have to do with you? Not a thing. We have no control over the thought patterns and choices of others. [/COLOR][/FONT][/LEFT] [/QUOTE]
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