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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 666714" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Oprah, who is exactly my age, has overcome so much and has been my idol for years, if I have one. Our cable doesn't have OWN though. Boo hoo.</p><p></p><p>I have a judging problem too. One of my worst traits. I judge and I don't like being judged. How hypocritical of me, no? I have to work on that. I haven't put much effort into that aspect of me that I don't like at all. </p><p></p><p>My Mom judged everyone--either all good or all bad. Ugh. I don't want to be her. Now that I named the bad trait I have, I realize I have been judging my sister's choices. The ones that have to do with me, well, maybe I have a right to check in on them. The other decisions she has made t hat I would not have made or that are outside of my own moral code--do I have a right to judge that? I don't think so, but I am. Just like she is judging me. We are both drawing conclusions. We are both at least partly wrong. </p><p></p><p>Judgment. I have to work hard on this one. How dare I judge anyone. Am I God?</p><p></p><p>Thanks, Cedar. Seriously, I need to be mindful of this in myself, especially regarding those who judge me. The wrong thing done twice doesn't make it right.</p><p></p><p>Then, again, who is to judge whether or not judging is right or wrong? <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 666714, member: 1550"] Oprah, who is exactly my age, has overcome so much and has been my idol for years, if I have one. Our cable doesn't have OWN though. Boo hoo. I have a judging problem too. One of my worst traits. I judge and I don't like being judged. How hypocritical of me, no? I have to work on that. I haven't put much effort into that aspect of me that I don't like at all. My Mom judged everyone--either all good or all bad. Ugh. I don't want to be her. Now that I named the bad trait I have, I realize I have been judging my sister's choices. The ones that have to do with me, well, maybe I have a right to check in on them. The other decisions she has made t hat I would not have made or that are outside of my own moral code--do I have a right to judge that? I don't think so, but I am. Just like she is judging me. We are both drawing conclusions. We are both at least partly wrong. Judgment. I have to work hard on this one. How dare I judge anyone. Am I God? Thanks, Cedar. Seriously, I need to be mindful of this in myself, especially regarding those who judge me. The wrong thing done twice doesn't make it right. Then, again, who is to judge whether or not judging is right or wrong? ;) [/QUOTE]
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