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Natural Consequences, or "How My difficult child Prefers To Learn"
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<blockquote data-quote="compassion" data-source="post: 296976" data-attributes="member: 6393"><p>I have said and done: I will pay you rather than the dentist if no cavities. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> This has worked with son but not rally with difficult child who has zero impulsive control.</p><p>I try to have things be HER choices. </p><p> difficult child, however, really does not connect consequences and actions like most people do. It is part of her illness.</p><p> I set boundaries on how much I can/will do without resentment. Like right now, she is very bored, I will buy her a movie pass vs. handing her the money.</p><p> I choose my battles majorally and try to keep the focus on my own self/reactions as much as possible.</p><p> Compassion</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="compassion, post: 296976, member: 6393"] I have said and done: I will pay you rather than the dentist if no cavities. :) This has worked with son but not rally with difficult child who has zero impulsive control. I try to have things be HER choices. difficult child, however, really does not connect consequences and actions like most people do. It is part of her illness. I set boundaries on how much I can/will do without resentment. Like right now, she is very bored, I will buy her a movie pass vs. handing her the money. I choose my battles majorally and try to keep the focus on my own self/reactions as much as possible. Compassion [/QUOTE]
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