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<blockquote data-quote="jal" data-source="post: 579240" data-attributes="member: 3477"><p>This is just such a sad situation. My mother in law is in a wheelchair and cannot care for herself at all. Her husband has been in the hospital since last Sunday. I won't go into the nightmarish details, but she usually can find someone to stay with her throughout the day and now husband has been going and staying nights. We just had the blizzard to getting around and people in has been tough so husband is doing the bulk of it, but tomorrow is Monday and work begins again. She has no savings, has income from a rental building and gets disability. Her husband had to retired a year ago due to a brain bleed which is why he is back in the hospital. I just don't know where to start for this. She needs 24 hour care. She sits in this wheelchair and has for almost 3 years since her back surgery and does nothing to help or improve her situation. Her back is fine, now her knees are not. She has ballooned up being in this chair and she fell again this morning and my husband cannot pick her up. He is 5"11, 165lbs and hurt his back with the shoveling yesterday.</p><p></p><p>Luckily, she just got Lifecall, so local personnel came and got her up, but this is just constant...She has fallen 3 times in 1 week. She needs a full time attendant or a facility for assistance. Anyone know where to start for someone who doesn't have a lot of money to completely pay for their own care?</p><p></p><p>TIA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jal, post: 579240, member: 3477"] This is just such a sad situation. My mother in law is in a wheelchair and cannot care for herself at all. Her husband has been in the hospital since last Sunday. I won't go into the nightmarish details, but she usually can find someone to stay with her throughout the day and now husband has been going and staying nights. We just had the blizzard to getting around and people in has been tough so husband is doing the bulk of it, but tomorrow is Monday and work begins again. She has no savings, has income from a rental building and gets disability. Her husband had to retired a year ago due to a brain bleed which is why he is back in the hospital. I just don't know where to start for this. She needs 24 hour care. She sits in this wheelchair and has for almost 3 years since her back surgery and does nothing to help or improve her situation. Her back is fine, now her knees are not. She has ballooned up being in this chair and she fell again this morning and my husband cannot pick her up. He is 5"11, 165lbs and hurt his back with the shoveling yesterday. Luckily, she just got Lifecall, so local personnel came and got her up, but this is just constant...She has fallen 3 times in 1 week. She needs a full time attendant or a facility for assistance. Anyone know where to start for someone who doesn't have a lot of money to completely pay for their own care? TIA [/QUOTE]
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