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Need advice on best and least combative way to get 19 year old to move out
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<blockquote data-quote="vligrl" data-source="post: 532045" data-attributes="member: 14003"><p>He pays for cell and you are right that it is frustrating not hearing back from him. Not punishing him for it, but husband used the non communication to end the use of his car and not to ask him to use it. Made me very upset that he used this excuse, when we were going to sit down with him and explain that while he is using drugs, there will be no car, but instead, he made my son feel that it was because he didn't get back to us soon enough. Two kids.... </p><p>After being able to talk to my son alone on the phone, we discussed drug use, expectations, plans, no car use with drug use and plan on saving up when you start working full time to be able to move out by the end of summer. He said he won't smoke then and I can test him after fourteen days when it should be out of his system. I told him testing mean peeing with the door open with one of us outside the door. No notice when...just random. He said fine, no big deal. Still refused treatment. Will test for multiple drugs, randomly. Who knows?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="vligrl, post: 532045, member: 14003"] He pays for cell and you are right that it is frustrating not hearing back from him. Not punishing him for it, but husband used the non communication to end the use of his car and not to ask him to use it. Made me very upset that he used this excuse, when we were going to sit down with him and explain that while he is using drugs, there will be no car, but instead, he made my son feel that it was because he didn't get back to us soon enough. Two kids.... After being able to talk to my son alone on the phone, we discussed drug use, expectations, plans, no car use with drug use and plan on saving up when you start working full time to be able to move out by the end of summer. He said he won't smoke then and I can test him after fourteen days when it should be out of his system. I told him testing mean peeing with the door open with one of us outside the door. No notice when...just random. He said fine, no big deal. Still refused treatment. Will test for multiple drugs, randomly. Who knows? [/QUOTE]
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