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<blockquote data-quote="Lady Bear" data-source="post: 750029" data-attributes="member: 24183"><p>[USER=23706]@BusynMember[/USER] Thank you for telling me your story. I see amit I was tough to tell, sorry you and your husband have had such a stressful time of it.</p><p>My mother and father didn't give me any boundaries or guidance and have used pot since a young age to mask the pain of emotional unhealth. Probably why I over compensate where my boy is concerned as I have feelings of guilt that I could of done better and maybe he wouldn't of done what he did. The police were called but didn't press charges. Here he has to wash up and make his own lunch and clean up the dog poo and walk the dog clean the toilet/bath hoover. Plus self care. He will have to pay back any monies still owing when he is working. I know grandmother is the victim and is hurt beyond belief andhas lost trust for ever. I would just like for her to stop sending nicey nice messages to me and then in the same time sending cruel messages to my son.... He did wrong...he is trying to make a mends....it is what it is ...... Need to move on. Thank you for your advice. I can't make him speak to someone...I wish I could because I know it would be beneficial but how can I make a 6ft 16 year old talk to a counsellor?</p><p>I will work on myself with the feelings if guilt and pity for my son and try to make him see that even though he felt neglected he could of chosen to go about things differently.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lady Bear, post: 750029, member: 24183"] [USER=23706]@BusynMember[/USER] Thank you for telling me your story. I see amit I was tough to tell, sorry you and your husband have had such a stressful time of it. My mother and father didn't give me any boundaries or guidance and have used pot since a young age to mask the pain of emotional unhealth. Probably why I over compensate where my boy is concerned as I have feelings of guilt that I could of done better and maybe he wouldn't of done what he did. The police were called but didn't press charges. Here he has to wash up and make his own lunch and clean up the dog poo and walk the dog clean the toilet/bath hoover. Plus self care. He will have to pay back any monies still owing when he is working. I know grandmother is the victim and is hurt beyond belief andhas lost trust for ever. I would just like for her to stop sending nicey nice messages to me and then in the same time sending cruel messages to my son.... He did wrong...he is trying to make a mends....it is what it is ...... Need to move on. Thank you for your advice. I can't make him speak to someone...I wish I could because I know it would be beneficial but how can I make a 6ft 16 year old talk to a counsellor? I will work on myself with the feelings if guilt and pity for my son and try to make him see that even though he felt neglected he could of chosen to go about things differently. [/QUOTE]
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