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NEED ADVICE talked to difficult child's PO today!
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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 13670" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>I do think you have an unclear percepton of how my injury came about. difficult child did not beat me up. He was agitated after a telephone therapy session that brought on a rage. He kicked me once in the side while in that rage. He stopped instantly and called 911 for help. </p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>Well, I guess it's a fine point. I think that a lot of people would say that I do feel that if someone gets agitated and kicks you and breaks your rib, he has beaten you. </p><p></p><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p>He has consistently shown remorse and concern for my health since that fateful night. </p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>Has he felt bad and done something about it, or has he just felt bad? </p><p></p><p>[ QUOTE ]</p><p> He has never asked us to take him back into our house. Also for the record, he has asked for help in finding a place to live. </p><p></p><p>[/ QUOTE ]</p><p></p><p>I guess that confuses me even more. If he hasn't complied with what's required of him for early release, hasn't asked to move in with you, and you didn't offer, what could possibly motivate this lady into saying that she would only consider early release if he went to live with you? Other than that you ticked her off by calling her boss and complaining about her and she has no idea of what to do with difficult child. I'm not saying this to be judgmental about you in any way. I know that you would cut off your right arm if you thought it would help him have a safe and happy life. I <em>am</em> being totally judgmental about her. I think you ticked her off and she is setting you up by playing on your better nature. I think it would be unfair to yourself to make all of the plans and sacrifice in this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 13670, member: 99"] [ QUOTE ] I do think you have an unclear percepton of how my injury came about. difficult child did not beat me up. He was agitated after a telephone therapy session that brought on a rage. He kicked me once in the side while in that rage. He stopped instantly and called 911 for help. [/ QUOTE ] Well, I guess it's a fine point. I think that a lot of people would say that I do feel that if someone gets agitated and kicks you and breaks your rib, he has beaten you. [ QUOTE ] He has consistently shown remorse and concern for my health since that fateful night. [/ QUOTE ] Has he felt bad and done something about it, or has he just felt bad? [ QUOTE ] He has never asked us to take him back into our house. Also for the record, he has asked for help in finding a place to live. [/ QUOTE ] I guess that confuses me even more. If he hasn't complied with what's required of him for early release, hasn't asked to move in with you, and you didn't offer, what could possibly motivate this lady into saying that she would only consider early release if he went to live with you? Other than that you ticked her off by calling her boss and complaining about her and she has no idea of what to do with difficult child. I'm not saying this to be judgmental about you in any way. I know that you would cut off your right arm if you thought it would help him have a safe and happy life. I [i]am[/i] being totally judgmental about her. I think you ticked her off and she is setting you up by playing on your better nature. I think it would be unfair to yourself to make all of the plans and sacrifice in this. [/QUOTE]
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