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Need advice with what appears to be PASSIVE oppositional defiance disorder
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<blockquote data-quote="sbateman" data-source="post: 411837" data-attributes="member: 11319"><p>PS. yes, my daughter has already walked quite a few times to the car without her shoes on........it's when she is standing in the doorway of the bathroom...looking into the bathroom, and then says: 'where is the bathroom?' that my blood starts to boil over. We've lived in this same house ever since she has been home, and we have 5 rooms including kitchen and bathroom so it's not exactly big enough to get lost in. Then she went through a week of walking out of the kitchen to put her dirty dishes in the bathroom sink......instead of 3 steps to the kitchen sink. Again - DESPAIR! That behaviour has now stopped. I just wait for the next version. We have the 2 opinions going at the moment (much like this thread): ME: She knows what she is doing, even if it is a cry for more attention,at the end of the day, she knows what she is doing. SCHOOL: She is totally confused and clueless. If she continues to get more attention for being clueless, then surely this is the behaviour that she is most likely to adopt, and is being enforced. As her parent, I cannot allow her to allow herself to become disabled. At 6, she does not know any better or understand the repercussions of preptending not to understand or know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sbateman, post: 411837, member: 11319"] PS. yes, my daughter has already walked quite a few times to the car without her shoes on........it's when she is standing in the doorway of the bathroom...looking into the bathroom, and then says: 'where is the bathroom?' that my blood starts to boil over. We've lived in this same house ever since she has been home, and we have 5 rooms including kitchen and bathroom so it's not exactly big enough to get lost in. Then she went through a week of walking out of the kitchen to put her dirty dishes in the bathroom sink......instead of 3 steps to the kitchen sink. Again - DESPAIR! That behaviour has now stopped. I just wait for the next version. We have the 2 opinions going at the moment (much like this thread): ME: She knows what she is doing, even if it is a cry for more attention,at the end of the day, she knows what she is doing. SCHOOL: She is totally confused and clueless. If she continues to get more attention for being clueless, then surely this is the behaviour that she is most likely to adopt, and is being enforced. As her parent, I cannot allow her to allow herself to become disabled. At 6, she does not know any better or understand the repercussions of preptending not to understand or know. [/QUOTE]
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