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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 689996" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If my kids were on dangerous drugs, and knew dangerous people I would have no trouble saying no to them. In fact, I have. I can be tough and have had to be. I may cry later, but I would say no. Everyone is so different. You sound so kind. I have a soft heart, but it has been used badly so I have toughened up a lot.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you are doing what is best for you. I do know many people who can say no to their own bilogical and adopted kids. I am one and my kids still love me. And I would easily die for any of them. For me it is about boundaries. And of course it's easy for me to talk. My grown kids are doing well now.</p><p>At any rate, I hope your kind heart is not taken advantage of. You seem so nice, but vulnerable. Do care for yourself the way you care for others. You are important too, you know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 689996, member: 1550"] If my kids were on dangerous drugs, and knew dangerous people I would have no trouble saying no to them. In fact, I have. I can be tough and have had to be. I may cry later, but I would say no. Everyone is so different. You sound so kind. I have a soft heart, but it has been used badly so I have toughened up a lot. I am glad you are doing what is best for you. I do know many people who can say no to their own bilogical and adopted kids. I am one and my kids still love me. And I would easily die for any of them. For me it is about boundaries. And of course it's easy for me to talk. My grown kids are doing well now. At any rate, I hope your kind heart is not taken advantage of. You seem so nice, but vulnerable. Do care for yourself the way you care for others. You are important too, you know. [/QUOTE]
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