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<blockquote data-quote="in a daze" data-source="post: 606261" data-attributes="member: 15832"><p>I did tell my son to leave the first time and he came back 3 days later with his tail between his legs, and he did then agree to go to rehab. We couldn't get him in because the rehab said it was not an acute situation and insurance would not pay, so he agreed to out patient; however before he could start we had to call 911 on him and was admitted for detox (BAL of .270) and from there went to inpatient rehab.</p><p>He relapsed on release from inpatient rehab. We called the cops, and one of them did take me aside to talk to me. Now he did tell me that legally we would need to evict him. However, difficult child doesn't know that, and personally, I would not hesitate to ask him to leave again (although we have no intention of him ever living here again). So I'm not advising anyone to break the law or anything, but it could be done in such a way that you ASKED the difficult child to leave, and he complied. Making it miserable for the difficult child to live in your home (such as stop cooking for him, take away car, providing nothing but shelter and anything else he may enjoy as a member of the household)may also hasten his voluntary departure.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="in a daze, post: 606261, member: 15832"] I did tell my son to leave the first time and he came back 3 days later with his tail between his legs, and he did then agree to go to rehab. We couldn't get him in because the rehab said it was not an acute situation and insurance would not pay, so he agreed to out patient; however before he could start we had to call 911 on him and was admitted for detox (BAL of .270) and from there went to inpatient rehab. He relapsed on release from inpatient rehab. We called the cops, and one of them did take me aside to talk to me. Now he did tell me that legally we would need to evict him. However, difficult child doesn't know that, and personally, I would not hesitate to ask him to leave again (although we have no intention of him ever living here again). So I'm not advising anyone to break the law or anything, but it could be done in such a way that you ASKED the difficult child to leave, and he complied. Making it miserable for the difficult child to live in your home (such as stop cooking for him, take away car, providing nothing but shelter and anything else he may enjoy as a member of the household)may also hasten his voluntary departure. [/QUOTE]
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