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Need board moms to help me help my adult married son (in faltering marriage)
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 299198" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Having the mother get custody is NOT set in stone anymore. In our state ALL divorced couples get shared parenting. Not one week here and one there, or all at one and weekends at the other.</p><p></p><p>My bro and his ex each have their daughter 3 days one week and 4 days the next. It is the standard that is being used more and more. exSIL is an active alcoholic with a real addiction to pain medications. She has been working hospice and clearly getting drugs that way. She lost 2 hospice jobs because this. </p><p></p><p>Bro is sober, a really good parent and has NO chance of EVER getting full custody unless she dies or spends a LOT of time in a psychiatric hospital. She has had a couple of psychiatric hospital stays and two stays in the reg hospital in the last year. It si not enough to lose custody.</p><p></p><p>so your son is NOT guaranteed to lose custody. things have changed a LOT the last few years. Get a GOOD lawyer for him, get him GOOD therapy and medications and be able to show that he is a good parent. If there are any parenting classes he should take one. It can go a long way in a custody case.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 299198, member: 1233"] Having the mother get custody is NOT set in stone anymore. In our state ALL divorced couples get shared parenting. Not one week here and one there, or all at one and weekends at the other. My bro and his ex each have their daughter 3 days one week and 4 days the next. It is the standard that is being used more and more. exSIL is an active alcoholic with a real addiction to pain medications. She has been working hospice and clearly getting drugs that way. She lost 2 hospice jobs because this. Bro is sober, a really good parent and has NO chance of EVER getting full custody unless she dies or spends a LOT of time in a psychiatric hospital. She has had a couple of psychiatric hospital stays and two stays in the reg hospital in the last year. It si not enough to lose custody. so your son is NOT guaranteed to lose custody. things have changed a LOT the last few years. Get a GOOD lawyer for him, get him GOOD therapy and medications and be able to show that he is a good parent. If there are any parenting classes he should take one. It can go a long way in a custody case. [/QUOTE]
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