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Need board moms to help me help my adult married son (in faltering marriage)
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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 299202" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I agree with him trying to keep things together if the inevitable occurs.</p><p>He really does not want to give her any ammo against him.</p><p></p><p>If he can,he needs to keep it civil, remain the good guy through all of this. NO fighting. I wouldn't even push the genetic factor at this point. Maybe print up some info give it to her, just so that he can say he tried to inform her and work things out in different ways. </p><p>Once he see that things will not work-</p><p>Start documenting. </p><p>Keep track of everything, even if he trusts her.</p><p>But do not do anything illegal or suspicious. </p><p></p><p>The most important thing is he needs to remain stable and look like he really is trying and a great Dad. </p><p></p><p>As for Grandparents, I would remain neutral for now. Friendly and take no sides when around her or talking to her.</p><p></p><p>There are reasons for laws regarding who our kids get to be with, it shouldn't be whoever wants them, regardless of blood. Case in point my father, I would go to jail before he had them again.</p><p>Hopefully she will see that you are a good person and let you be a pert of his life.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 299202, member: 3155"] I agree with him trying to keep things together if the inevitable occurs. He really does not want to give her any ammo against him. If he can,he needs to keep it civil, remain the good guy through all of this. NO fighting. I wouldn't even push the genetic factor at this point. Maybe print up some info give it to her, just so that he can say he tried to inform her and work things out in different ways. Once he see that things will not work- Start documenting. Keep track of everything, even if he trusts her. But do not do anything illegal or suspicious. The most important thing is he needs to remain stable and look like he really is trying and a great Dad. As for Grandparents, I would remain neutral for now. Friendly and take no sides when around her or talking to her. There are reasons for laws regarding who our kids get to be with, it shouldn't be whoever wants them, regardless of blood. Case in point my father, I would go to jail before he had them again. Hopefully she will see that you are a good person and let you be a pert of his life. [/QUOTE]
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