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<blockquote data-quote="Kathy813" data-source="post: 514652" data-attributes="member: 1967"><p>Hi and welcome to the board!!</p><p></p><p>Now I hope that you are ready for some advice . . . </p><p></p><p>Stop paying for anything for your daughter!! You do not pay abusers to abuse you and that is exactly what she is doing. If she hates you, then why are you paying for her school, car insurance, and cell phone? She is cursing at you with the phone that <u>you</u> are providing.</p><p></p><p>I'm not clear on whether her dad and you are together. If you are still together, then he needs to support you and stop talking with your daughter while she is verbally trashing you and tell her that he will not tolerate it. If you are not still together, then let dad pay for her school, car insurance, and cell phone since he is her best buddy.</p><p></p><p>I know that you love her but you are not getting love in return. If you daughter is living with her boyfriend, then she is considered an adult and treated as such. No financial support. Period.</p><p></p><p>Personally, I would take a break from her. Let her know that you are breaking off contact until she can treat you with the respect that you deserve. It may take a while but she will figure out that she can't treat you like that anymore. In the meantime, you are being abused. Eventually, she will break up with the loser boyfriend and find her way back to you.</p><p></p><p>You need to have the strength and patience to wait it out. She will cling to the boyfriend out of spite as long as you are pushing her to get rid of him. Once you stop, you may be surprised.</p><p></p><p>I hope I didn't come across too harshly but I hate seeing parents being treated badly by their grown children. There is simply no reason that you have to tolerate that. One more thing . . . . people can only treat you like you let them treat you.</p><p></p><p>{{{Hugs}}}</p><p></p><p>~Kathy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kathy813, post: 514652, member: 1967"] Hi and welcome to the board!! Now I hope that you are ready for some advice . . . Stop paying for anything for your daughter!! You do not pay abusers to abuse you and that is exactly what she is doing. If she hates you, then why are you paying for her school, car insurance, and cell phone? She is cursing at you with the phone that [U]you[/U] are providing. I'm not clear on whether her dad and you are together. If you are still together, then he needs to support you and stop talking with your daughter while she is verbally trashing you and tell her that he will not tolerate it. If you are not still together, then let dad pay for her school, car insurance, and cell phone since he is her best buddy. I know that you love her but you are not getting love in return. If you daughter is living with her boyfriend, then she is considered an adult and treated as such. No financial support. Period. Personally, I would take a break from her. Let her know that you are breaking off contact until she can treat you with the respect that you deserve. It may take a while but she will figure out that she can't treat you like that anymore. In the meantime, you are being abused. Eventually, she will break up with the loser boyfriend and find her way back to you. You need to have the strength and patience to wait it out. She will cling to the boyfriend out of spite as long as you are pushing her to get rid of him. Once you stop, you may be surprised. I hope I didn't come across too harshly but I hate seeing parents being treated badly by their grown children. There is simply no reason that you have to tolerate that. One more thing . . . . people can only treat you like you let them treat you. {{{Hugs}}} ~Kathy [/QUOTE]
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