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<blockquote data-quote="dotty" data-source="post: 514800" data-attributes="member: 14148"><p>Thanks for your advice. Yes I am still married, but only because we can't sell the house and are stuck in this living arrangement until it does. I was a stay at home mom and did all I could for my children; would take a bullet for anyone of them. They know I love them with my whole heart and was and always will be there for them when they need me. Perhaps that's why she feels she can treat me like this; she knows I love her unconditionally and thrashes out at me because she feels she can. No excuse though; it hurts me. I've thrashed out at her too because of what I see and know about the boy; not going to lie. That's probably pushed her closer to him and with my luck they will get married just to spite me. But I've apologized and begged and simply won't be acknowledged or forgiven and I don't feel I deserve this at all. My husband feeds into this process, so I don't really have a support group. My other kids are out living there own lives, so they don't really seem to care what she does. I wish my husband would be united with me and I've asked him several times to do just that; but he has his own relationship with her and says he's not going to rock the boat and have her not talk to him either, so he walks on eggshells. Whatever. I guess it's better she have contact me someone at least....just wish it was me. As for the drugs, I'm not stupid and am sure she has or is doing pot with the loser, and I worry the path she is taking with him. She continues to be at the top of her class with straight A's so I'm hoping that means it can't be too bad of a problem...at least not yet, but I can't help but worry what her future is with this guy. And yes, I realize he isn't putting a gun to her head, but he is very good at what he does...control and manipulation. And he's got her hypnotized. Pray for us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dotty, post: 514800, member: 14148"] Thanks for your advice. Yes I am still married, but only because we can't sell the house and are stuck in this living arrangement until it does. I was a stay at home mom and did all I could for my children; would take a bullet for anyone of them. They know I love them with my whole heart and was and always will be there for them when they need me. Perhaps that's why she feels she can treat me like this; she knows I love her unconditionally and thrashes out at me because she feels she can. No excuse though; it hurts me. I've thrashed out at her too because of what I see and know about the boy; not going to lie. That's probably pushed her closer to him and with my luck they will get married just to spite me. But I've apologized and begged and simply won't be acknowledged or forgiven and I don't feel I deserve this at all. My husband feeds into this process, so I don't really have a support group. My other kids are out living there own lives, so they don't really seem to care what she does. I wish my husband would be united with me and I've asked him several times to do just that; but he has his own relationship with her and says he's not going to rock the boat and have her not talk to him either, so he walks on eggshells. Whatever. I guess it's better she have contact me someone at least....just wish it was me. As for the drugs, I'm not stupid and am sure she has or is doing pot with the loser, and I worry the path she is taking with him. She continues to be at the top of her class with straight A's so I'm hoping that means it can't be too bad of a problem...at least not yet, but I can't help but worry what her future is with this guy. And yes, I realize he isn't putting a gun to her head, but he is very good at what he does...control and manipulation. And he's got her hypnotized. Pray for us. [/QUOTE]
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