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<blockquote data-quote="dotty" data-source="post: 533751" data-attributes="member: 14148"><p>Update for any of you wondering what went on in court today. Found out Bozo was going to have an attorney so I called one yesterday who met me at court this morning. Ironically it's the only lawyer I really know and he's the one who helped get my daughter out of trouble a little over a year ago. He got his order of protection for one year and it cost me $350 I didn't have to lose. What hurt the most is that my daughter was there ready, willing, and all set to testify against me. We never even made eye contact. Hurt so bad. She didn't even look at her dad or acknowledge us in the courtroom. So sad. Even the judge acknowledged how terribly sad this whole situation was. So he got his way and gets to keep me away from the apartment he houses my daughter in; not like I ever went there anyway. He couldn't prove anything really. I had to acknowledge that I went to a gas station once to talk with him; his lawyer said that was stalking and harrassing, although we actually had a friendly conversation that day. The other was that I spit in front of him saying, "That's what I think of you"....in my own home after a heated discussion. Judge was just on his side from the getgo. Even my lawyer couldn't believe she honored it; I was the one in physical danger from my daughter. In any event, court date is over, and so is any feeling I have for my daughter. I buried her today in my heart. She is dead to me. If she could do that to me and hurt me like she did today, I just can't look to the future of having anything with her. It pains me. I will feel terrible forever. But to see her cocky attitude with her frizzed up hair and way too much makeup and that smirk I hate so much, that's what I will remember. I don't think I can forgive this one. The hurt may soften in the future and I'll get therapy for how to deal with the pain. But I don't want her in my life now or in the foreseeable future. She has made her choice to stay with ugly druggie Bozo. I used to think she was too good for him, that she deserved better, but today I finally realized she is exactly where she should be and that she has met her perfect match. I wish them nothing but unhappiness <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dotty, post: 533751, member: 14148"] Update for any of you wondering what went on in court today. Found out Bozo was going to have an attorney so I called one yesterday who met me at court this morning. Ironically it's the only lawyer I really know and he's the one who helped get my daughter out of trouble a little over a year ago. He got his order of protection for one year and it cost me $350 I didn't have to lose. What hurt the most is that my daughter was there ready, willing, and all set to testify against me. We never even made eye contact. Hurt so bad. She didn't even look at her dad or acknowledge us in the courtroom. So sad. Even the judge acknowledged how terribly sad this whole situation was. So he got his way and gets to keep me away from the apartment he houses my daughter in; not like I ever went there anyway. He couldn't prove anything really. I had to acknowledge that I went to a gas station once to talk with him; his lawyer said that was stalking and harrassing, although we actually had a friendly conversation that day. The other was that I spit in front of him saying, "That's what I think of you"....in my own home after a heated discussion. Judge was just on his side from the getgo. Even my lawyer couldn't believe she honored it; I was the one in physical danger from my daughter. In any event, court date is over, and so is any feeling I have for my daughter. I buried her today in my heart. She is dead to me. If she could do that to me and hurt me like she did today, I just can't look to the future of having anything with her. It pains me. I will feel terrible forever. But to see her cocky attitude with her frizzed up hair and way too much makeup and that smirk I hate so much, that's what I will remember. I don't think I can forgive this one. The hurt may soften in the future and I'll get therapy for how to deal with the pain. But I don't want her in my life now or in the foreseeable future. She has made her choice to stay with ugly druggie Bozo. I used to think she was too good for him, that she deserved better, but today I finally realized she is exactly where she should be and that she has met her perfect match. I wish them nothing but unhappiness :( [/QUOTE]
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