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<blockquote data-quote="dotty" data-source="post: 534340" data-attributes="member: 14148"><p>Not sure if reality has set in yet. Still shocked Bozo was granted a restraining order of protection; guess I had a lousy lawyer and not enough time to prepare and lie like he did. Part of me thought that this court thing might be the beginning of the end for Bozo and my daughter. I thought that maybe after she helped crucify me, she'd feel guilty about where her loyalties lie and eventually hate him for it. Not that she will ever come running back to me; I know that won't ever happen. Too much has happened between her and I to ever have a normal relationship or any at all. But tonight my husband reached her and she wasn't sorry at all. Said I deserved what happened to me and that she wasn't going to let me get away with trying to destroy her boyfriend's job. That's what they believe. I didn't, but doesn't matter anyway. I can't prove I didn't send some stupid magazine; he can't prove I did. She laughed when he told her how much she hurt me and how sad the entire situation was. Her response was that she was never coming back to me. Funny thing is I haven't asked her to. Haven't called or texted her in 10 1/2 days <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Have no desire to say anything to her. What can I possibly say after the display I was shown Monday in court. My daughter was proud of herself; hate and vengence in her eyes, even though she never even looked our way or said a thing. Does anyone think she feels bad or guilty at all? I guess a part of me always thought she had some compassion where I was concerned and even after all that's happened I am trying to find something, a reason, a why to all of this. Anyone have any ideas or thoughts? She's not sorry; doesn't feel bad, doesn't feel guilty, chuckled according to my husband. Maybe she was pretending, maybe it was real. What do you think. Iknow it doesn't matter now. I guess I still am numb knowing she did what she did and wanting so bad to feel like maybe she's sorry about doing it, even though she'll never ever tell me that even if she is. I just feel like such a failure as a mom for a child to hate me so bad she is capable of nothing, no emotion, no feeling, no compassion, no love. </p><p></p><p>I'm sure the days will go by and hopefully get easier. I'm meeting with a psychiatrist tomorrow; hopefully I can get some strong medications and find a therapist too. I don't think my life will ever be the same. The hurt here and now; the hatred from my daughter is far too great, and although I realize she's not someone I want or need in my life, it still is a very very sad situation. Even my lawyer, and the judge saw the pain in my very dysfunctional family. What do I do? How do I change the way I feel. Did I deserve this? Is she right?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dotty, post: 534340, member: 14148"] Not sure if reality has set in yet. Still shocked Bozo was granted a restraining order of protection; guess I had a lousy lawyer and not enough time to prepare and lie like he did. Part of me thought that this court thing might be the beginning of the end for Bozo and my daughter. I thought that maybe after she helped crucify me, she'd feel guilty about where her loyalties lie and eventually hate him for it. Not that she will ever come running back to me; I know that won't ever happen. Too much has happened between her and I to ever have a normal relationship or any at all. But tonight my husband reached her and she wasn't sorry at all. Said I deserved what happened to me and that she wasn't going to let me get away with trying to destroy her boyfriend's job. That's what they believe. I didn't, but doesn't matter anyway. I can't prove I didn't send some stupid magazine; he can't prove I did. She laughed when he told her how much she hurt me and how sad the entire situation was. Her response was that she was never coming back to me. Funny thing is I haven't asked her to. Haven't called or texted her in 10 1/2 days :) Have no desire to say anything to her. What can I possibly say after the display I was shown Monday in court. My daughter was proud of herself; hate and vengence in her eyes, even though she never even looked our way or said a thing. Does anyone think she feels bad or guilty at all? I guess a part of me always thought she had some compassion where I was concerned and even after all that's happened I am trying to find something, a reason, a why to all of this. Anyone have any ideas or thoughts? She's not sorry; doesn't feel bad, doesn't feel guilty, chuckled according to my husband. Maybe she was pretending, maybe it was real. What do you think. Iknow it doesn't matter now. I guess I still am numb knowing she did what she did and wanting so bad to feel like maybe she's sorry about doing it, even though she'll never ever tell me that even if she is. I just feel like such a failure as a mom for a child to hate me so bad she is capable of nothing, no emotion, no feeling, no compassion, no love. I'm sure the days will go by and hopefully get easier. I'm meeting with a psychiatrist tomorrow; hopefully I can get some strong medications and find a therapist too. I don't think my life will ever be the same. The hurt here and now; the hatred from my daughter is far too great, and although I realize she's not someone I want or need in my life, it still is a very very sad situation. Even my lawyer, and the judge saw the pain in my very dysfunctional family. What do I do? How do I change the way I feel. Did I deserve this? Is she right? [/QUOTE]
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