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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 517694" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>Hi and welcome. I am sorry you are facing all this and understand a little of how soul-destroying it is.</p><p>I have no expert words to give you, unfortunately, but it did occur to me on reading your post that your daughter in a sense wants and needs this drama and emotion. Something unconscious in her, of course... I sense that there is possibly a way to head all this stuff off at the pass before it develops into a fully fledged rage and it would be to do with physical things... do you ever try massaging her as she is getting "antsy"? Or taking her out for a brisk walk around the block or even better around the field if you are in the countryside? Of course doing these things just as she is getting ready for bed is not ideal but you have to implement emergency measures, I think. There may be <strong>something</strong>, you are obviously in the position to judge what it may be, that could prevent things even developing to this painful point, for all concerned. And I do feel the habit needs to be changed, bit by bit, to create a new, positive road map for her and in her brain. </p><p>If what I have said seems irrelevant and not useful, please discard it. As I say, it is (just) an intuition.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 517694, member: 11227"] Hi and welcome. I am sorry you are facing all this and understand a little of how soul-destroying it is. I have no expert words to give you, unfortunately, but it did occur to me on reading your post that your daughter in a sense wants and needs this drama and emotion. Something unconscious in her, of course... I sense that there is possibly a way to head all this stuff off at the pass before it develops into a fully fledged rage and it would be to do with physical things... do you ever try massaging her as she is getting "antsy"? Or taking her out for a brisk walk around the block or even better around the field if you are in the countryside? Of course doing these things just as she is getting ready for bed is not ideal but you have to implement emergency measures, I think. There may be [B]something[/B], you are obviously in the position to judge what it may be, that could prevent things even developing to this painful point, for all concerned. And I do feel the habit needs to be changed, bit by bit, to create a new, positive road map for her and in her brain. If what I have said seems irrelevant and not useful, please discard it. As I say, it is (just) an intuition. [/QUOTE]
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